Some people say that you only need to date three times to know whether two people can be together. This is the so-called three-date rule. Because you cannot fully understand a person before you meet. Even if you chat for a long time, you can only see some superficial phenomena. After meeting and dating for three times, some flaws will always be revealed. Let’s talk about the key in detail below.
1. The first date
In the process of chasing girls, dating is very important. , especially on a first date. The first date between a boy and a girl is actually like an interview. The interviewer is the girl, and the applicant is you. If a guy doesn't behave well on the first date, it's very likely that the girl isn't too impressed with you. Therefore, boys should be fully prepared for the first date just like an interview, know yourself and the enemy, and try to give the girl a more perfect date, so that you can pass the first interview and have the opportunity to proceed with the rest of the trip. Otherwise you can only say goodbye to girls.
2. The second date
If a boy passes the first date with a girl, then Only when you ask a girl out again will she agree to the invitation. Then on the second date, it is actually a process of mutual selection between you. During this process, you need to get to know each other, and this process may take a long time. Because if your understanding with a girl does not reach a certain depth, then the girl may feel defensive against you when you want to have a further relationship or increase the distance because she does not understand you. This is a girl's natural self-protection mechanism. Only by giving each other time and waiting until you can understand each other can you develop further. And in the process of getting to know each other, you can also further consider whether you are really suitable for being together.
3. The third date
If after the previous two preparations, the relationship between you and the girl If they still have a good impression of each other and are willing to keep in contact, then they can try to establish a relationship. Why do you say that? Some boys may think it's too early, and girls may be resistant. In this regard, I can only say: If a boy has been ambiguous with a girl for more than three dates, then the girl may suspect that she has made a mistake, and you are likely to enter the friendship zone. Because you have been together for so long, you both feel like you are just friends. It is conceivable that if you and a girl are like colleagues or just ordinary friends, then you will not be able to become particularly close in the future.
In summary: The three-date rule actually means that we cannot promote the relationship with girls too early, lest girls think you are too impatient; nor can you go on multiple dates without checking.Establish the relationship and let the girl feel that you are just friends. How long does it take to establish a relationship with a girl? Three dates, neither too early nor too late, just right.
