After you have a certain relationship foundation with a girl, you can put the invitation on the agenda. However, the invitation is not that simple. In many cases, even if you have a good conversation, you may not be able to get a date. So what’s the reason why girls can’t get a date by chatting only on WeChat? What should we do?
1. Girls can’t get a date by chatting only by WeChat Reasons for coming out
1. Failure to establish a sense of security
If you can’t come out and meet each other, you will feel distressed. Have you given the other party the necessary sense of belonging? After all, there are so many scam companies in society, and the results are poor. It is still difficult to casually go out and meet people chatting online. This type of girl usually belongs to the good-natured type. They don't believe in boys from strangers. If you ask her out, she will have a lot to think about. The first thought is whether you are a bad person. It is also possible that you have been deceived in the past, and then you will feel defensive in your heart. My friend used to be very innocent. He had a long-distance relationship with a boy, and then he became a playboy. Since then, I have refused to meet anyone I chatted with online.
2. Mengsao girl
This kind of girl may be more generous in chatting. But when they meet, they remember more to protect themselves. He will only play with people he knows very well. Moreover, relatives, friends and strangers have two different appearances in front of them. Men and coquettish women chatted and did not understand each other and did not meet each other. This is just one world of the Internet. Generally, reality and the Internet are very clearly distinguished, so they are also on different sides in the Internet age. They are only suitable for chatting and not meeting.
3. I don’t have feelings for you
Many girls don’t want to be with you even if they find that they don’t have feelings for you. However, they will also respond to your messages out of politeness, so they may find reasons to refuse your invitation.
2. What to do if a girl can’t make a date by just chatting on WeChat
If it’s because you haven’t established a sense of security, then you may need to spend more time making her trust you; if the girl is a A sultry girl will not accept your invitation in a short period of time. The correct thing to do is to continue to contact you. Once she feels familiar with you, it will be easy to make an appointment.
But if a girl refuses to go on a date because she doesn’t have feelings for you, then it’s basically out of the question. How to judge specifically? Look at the frequency of the messages she replies, whether she replies in seconds, whether you say a lot and she only replies with one sentence, acting a little impatient... If you are lying on the above points, then it is ok gave up.
There is always a certain reason why a girl can’t get a date, but she can contact her. Of course, in addition to analyzing the reasons for the girl herself, you can also find the reasons from yourself. Is it because she doesn’t like your invitation? Is it because you invited her toThe timing of the appointment is wrong. Did you give her a bad impression during the last chat? Only by looking for internal and external reasons can you know the key to solving the problem.
