After the first date, if you are not sure about your impression in the other person's mind and continue to use the pursuit method, it is easy to destroy your good impression in the other person's mind. So what can you do to increase your attraction after the first date?< /p>
1. Forget that girl
Generally speaking, after the date, the girl will not take the initiative to contact you. Unless her feelings for you rise to an uncontrollable level. So after the first date, you must first completely forget about that girl. Yes, you read that right. Not everything needs to be struck while the iron is hot. If you become overly enthusiastic, it's easy to reveal your neediness. Of course, you don't really want to forget her completely, it just means that you can hide your need.
There are three advantages to doing this. One of the benefits is that you can better demonstrate your self-control and make girls think that you are not pursuing her because of her beauty. Second, if you do this compared to most boys, you will look very different. In other words, you will have different charms. Third, you can better control the initiative instead of exposing your inner thoughts prematurely and taking away the initiative from the girl.
2. Try to keep jokes and humorous words to a minimum
Boys who are humorous and interesting will definitely be more popular with girls. It's easy to get closer, but after the first date, what you should do is cut back on the jokes. Because girls are very sensitive, she can detect any signs of neediness in your so-called jokes. So, if it was originally a perfect date, don’t make the girl suspicious because of your wardrobe joke. When the time comes, you will end up being too clever and mistaken.
3. Control the number of times you meet girls
Generally speaking, after dating, you only need to meet once a week. . Therefore, it is enough to only invite once a week, because too many invitations will still expose your sense of need. You should give girls enough time and space. Don't give her too much pressure. Just like why those confessions all end in failure, it’s because they are just true expressions of your emotions. You have prepared a lot of flowers, touching words, and heart-shaped candles. These are all external appearances you impose on girls, and It's not a girl's recognition of your feelings, so don't do such stupid things before the relationship has advanced to this point, otherwise it will be embarrassing. The key is that you can never take it back.
Some people say it will always come back. Just let it go. If it comes back, it belongs to you. Love dates should also be like this, creating a mysterious sense of mutual attraction between men and women for girls. Why worry about girls not looking for you?
