Dating is the best time to get closer to a girl. However, after some boys date a girl, not only does the relationship between the two parties not escalate, but the girl becomes cold. What is the reason for this situation and what should be done?
1. Girls are slow Hot type
If a girl is a slow-heating type, she may be lukewarm towards you even after dating. To treat this kind of woman, you must be patient and pursue this kind of woman. It's time, and love will definitely grow over time. The reason why many men fall out of love is because they give up halfway.
2. The gap between online image and offline image is too big
Many straight men think that a girl is willing to come out to meet you for a date, so they think the matter has been done, so during the date You are very casual when you are young, or you may describe yourself to a girl online as being perfect and a gentleman, leaving the girl with the impression of a male god, but when you meet, you look like a middle-aged greasy uncle. In this way, girls will treat you like a man. Your goodwill will instantly decrease, which will lead to a very cold response from girls to you after a date. In fact, this is no wonder for girls.
Therefore, if you want to keep a girl’s feelings about you unchanged after a date, your image must be described to the girl in a consistent way. It does not need to be exactly the same, but at least it cannot be too different, otherwise the girl will You can't blame others for neglecting you.
3. Awkward chat
Some boys can always talk endlessly when chatting with girls on WeChat. , the topic is constant, but when you meet, you will be very nervous. You always don’t know what topics to talk to girls. When you are nervous, you will act abnormally, and then enter into awkward chat. If you chat awkwardly, you will basically screw up the date. Because girls don’t really like a girl who goes on a date with them and doesn’t even know how to talk about it. Logically speaking, if you can chat with a girl and go out on a date, it means that the relationship must be very good, but because of your nervousness and Insufficient preparation will directly cause a girl's favorable impression of you to plummet, which is why girls will become cold towards you after a date.
4. Being too anxious to upgrade the relationship
There is a saying that "you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry", especially When you are pursuing a girl you like, the more you do this, the more it will make the girl feel that you don't really like her, but just want to possess her. In fact, since the girl has already come out to date you, you don't have to worry about her. Whether she likes you or not, you just need to do your part and you will be able to be with her sooner or later. However, many straight men always do this step in reverse and feel that they need to win over the girl first and then cultivate her. When it comes to relationships, the more impatient you are, the more girls will alienate you on dates, so girls often start to ignore you after a date., it’s because you reveal your needs too clearly during the date that the girl suddenly becomes defensive.
Don’t worry at this time. You can ignore the other party for a while. If the other person likes you, they will naturally take the initiative to contact you. If the other person has not made any move, it also means that you are not suitable at all.
