For extroverted boys, when chatting with a girl for the first time, there will be no embarrassing situations such as running out of things to talk about, cold conversations, awkward conversations, etc., and he can even flirt with the girl. But this is not the case for introverted boys. They worry about leaving a girl with the impression that they don’t know how to chat on the first date. So what can introverted boys talk about on the first date to win the favor of girls?
1. Make an agreement before meeting
On the first date, when both parties are not familiar with each other, do not go to someone else’s house without making an appointment in advance. Wait for her at the next desk or at work, and temporarily inform the other party that I will pick you up. This is not thoughtful, but abrupt. If you really want to pick up a girl, then ask her directly if it is convenient for you. If the girl agrees, then go. If a girl refuses, it's human nature. After all, you haven't gotten to know each other well enough to go near each other's house.
2. Talk less and do more
If you force the boy in your heart to talk more on the first date , is actually an unwise move, because the nature of boys is like this. They will not talk much to please girls, but they will also feel very painful. In the end, both of them will feel uncomfortable and unhappy. In this case, it is better to follow your heart and say less and do more. Of course, talking less does not mean to be silent. In particular, you cannot talk about some sensitive topics, such as the other person’s love life and your future (because the horoscope has not been revealed yet, it will be very offensive if you say it too early.) Don’t talk about the other person’s love life and your future. There are too many comments about your makeup and appearance. You can appropriately praise your beauty or cuteness. No matter what a boy does on a first date, don't just think about yourself. Ask the girl for her opinion and then let you make the decision. This will look like you respect the girl and will make her think that you are very independent. In addition, don't say derogatory words about yourself, and don't tell the truth. The reason is the same as above. If you like someone, try to work hard to get better slowly, and then let her know.
3. Date greetings
If both parties have a good impression after meeting on the first date, then you should send After the girl returns home, she can ask, "Are you home safe?" to test how the girl reacts to the boy's introversion on the first date. If the girl replies, it means it's a success. If she doesn't reply, don't continue to send messages and wait for a night to cool down. Try again. Never punch "good morning" and "good night" every day, especially when the other party doesn't reply. If you want to start a topic, don't start with "Have you gone to work?" or "Have you gotten up?" You can start with an anecdote, "I saw...it was so funny today" or post a video like a cat licking its paws.
In addition, if you treat the girl to a meal on the first date, don’t let the girl pay for it. Don’t make the AA system, which will make the girl If you feel uncomfortable, you will be thought to be stingy. There are also some girls who areI think the AA system is better, but in today's society, there are really not many, and gentlemanly behavior is still very popular. Then since it is a date, you must show your care for the girl. When playing, think more about her, talk more about her hobbies, take her to eat good food, bring her food when eating, hold her hand when crossing the street, Pay attention to her mood at all times, this is what boys need to do. Straight men often just ignore girls' feelings, and then it becomes a helpless date.
