Even if you have a good relationship with a girl, it is impossible to come out every time you invite her, and you will inevitably encounter the embarrassing situation of being rejected. So how should you reply at this time to ease the embarrassing atmosphere?
1. Follow the girl’s words
When a girl refuses your invitation, in order to avoid embarrassment, we can follow the girl’s words, for example:
Girl: It doesn’t feel right to go out with you not long after we met.
Boy: That’s right, I didn’t think carefully about it, but I’m really happy during the time I spent with you. And how do I look like a bad person?
Girl: Haha
When faced with a girl’s rejection, don’t choose to continue asking about the reason for rejection and rationalize what the girl said. Find a reasonable reason for her, keep it simple and don't be too exaggerated, just to give her a step down. If the girl really doesn't want to come out, don't continue the invitation at this time and change it to a lighter topic.
2. Express understanding and approval
When a girl rejects your invitation, it is still attractive in a sense. If you haven't achieved it, try your best to show your understanding and approval at this time to deepen the attraction and try to leave a good impression on the girl. For example:
Girl: I'm sorry, I have to take the xx exam these days. I may not be able to go out with you
Boy: I heard that this exam is very difficult. How are you doing in your study? Are you sure?
Girl: It’s okay, I’m just very nervous< /p>
Boys: Nervousness means that you take the exam seriously, work hard, and you will definitely pass it
No matter whether a girl really wants to take the exam or not, responding to her in this way will make the girl feel that you are Those who respect her will not give her a sense of oppression.
3. Appropriate humor
Many embarrassing situations can be laughed out of in a humorous way. Of. The same goes for inviting girls to be rejected. For example:
Girls: We’re not that familiar yet, forget it.
Boys: If you don’t agree, I’m relieved. I don’t think it’s reliable either. In fact, I’m not either. A random person
Girl: Haha
When a girl is rejected for a date, don’t try to find excuses to cover it up, as this will only make it more embarrassing. Use this humorous way to laugh at yourself and tell her that luckily she didn't succeed, but it can make the other person feel relieved!
4. Throw the question to girls
Girls may reject you because of a lack of security, so don’t take the initiative to invite girls. That will easily make girls resentful. The correct approach is to put the question of invitation to girls.The student asked her to make the choice, for example:
Girl: Sorry, I have something to do today, so let’s go out together next time.
Boy: Okay, I understand, you are busy Okay
Girl: Yeah
Boy: By the way, there’s a good movie coming out next week, you won’t reject me again
Girl: Okay, I get it
When doing this, you must pay attention to the girl’s attitude. When you invite a girl for the second time, if the girl’s attitude is very impatient, then don’t try to invite her. You can choose to get closer to the girl first. , if the girl’s attitude is willing, she can prepare for the next date in advance.
