How to ask a girl out is a headache for many boys. After all, if the invitation is too direct, it will only appear too purposeful and will be easily rejected. So how do you ask a girl out so that she won’t be rejected easily?
1. Girls who are familiar with reality h2>
When inviting girls you already know well in real life, it is recommended to use direct invitation.
Some friends may be wondering, wouldn’t direct invitation reduce the success rate?
In fact, for girls who are already familiar with each other, their impression of you has been solidified. The relationship form is also basically finalized. It is meaningless to think about changing her attitude and liking you through chatting on WeChat. Think about it, if you can't attract her in reality, will she believe the fancy things you chat about online? After all, what makes girls like you is you as a person, not your chatting methods and words.
For example, "My friend just opened a hot pot restaurant recently. I know you like Chongqing hot pot. We can try it together when we are free." If the other party agrees immediately, then the invitation can be further finalized, "Then it's up to you, I'm available at any time." Strike while the iron is hot and fix the time.
Note that girls who are already familiar with invitations must use their personal status as the reason for invitations. Some people may invite girls as friends or for work reasons, but in fact it is meaningless to do so. When you get along with her, you should treat her like a man with a woman. After all, you are not just trying to be friends or colleagues.
2. Introduce the girls you know
For the girls you introduce, it is usually introduced by relatives and friends. Yes, I already have matchmaking and recommendations from family and friends, and there are certain social relationships. Girls feel very secure, and the intermediary can help you put in good words. As long as the other party is sincere and does not dislike you, the success rate of the invitation is very high.
1) Understand the other party’s preferences
If you want to attack him, you must first sharpen his weapon. First understand the other person's preferences, and then find a way to find a reason to invite them. Basically, you will get twice the result with half the effort. When chatting, you can talk about the preferences of both parties, and then select suitable dating items.
2) Make insinuations and test your attitude
Even if you are a girl introduced by others, you still need to make the other person have a good impression of you. If the other party has no interest in you, even if you invite him, it won't mean much. It's a waste of time and money. You can test the other party's attitude by making an invitation.
For example, "I see you've been under a lot of pressure at work recently. I happen to have two talk show tickets on hand, so we can do it together when they're free." If the other person finds an excuse to shirk it, it means he or she is not interested in you, so don't Forced invitation. If the other party agrees straight away,Then proceed to the next step of invitation.
3) Further confirm the invitation
Once a girl readily agrees to your invitation, she can proceed with the specific invitation. . For example, "I'm free this weekend, how about you?" Figure out the time and place.
In actual practice, when girls really decide to invest before a date, they may be unable to invite or not want to go to the date. Therefore, before a date is approaching, you should also test the other person's attitude to avoid letting the dove out.
