Before the Internet era, chatting was becoming more and more convenient, but if you wanted to develop further with a girl, you had to take the step of dating. It can be said that dating is almost the only important step in establishing a relationship between the sexes. . Next, let’s talk more specifically about how to date girls easily and happily? How to date successfully.
1. Preparation for dating
1. Image for dating
Personal image is actually a very critical part. Those rough men, science and engineering men , men who don’t use facial cleanser very much are very lacking in this aspect. A good image is almost half the battle in this good-looking society. Personal image is specifically divided into several parts:
A. Hairstyle issue: As for how to get a good hair style, let’s not think about the complexity. Go to a local high-end store (more young and fashionable customers) ) barber shop to find a hairstylist who is the store manager to style it once, the estimated budget is about 100. From now on, you can go to some small shops to get your hair repaired.
B. Skin problems: The skin should be kept fresh. Almost every girl likes boys who are fresh and clean, so young men are very popular.
C. Beard problem: Unless your beard has a deliberate shape, clean it all. Don’t be harmed by the sayings like “sad beard, melancholy eyes” and “mourning culture”. .
D. Dressing: Go to the commercial street in the central district to see how those handsome guys dress, imitate them, and buy clothes based on them. Gradually, your clothes and aesthetics will improve.
2. Relationship pre-processing before dating
It is the stage of your relationship before dating. , you try to make the relationship between you and the girl more harmonious before dating, and understand each other more deeply, so that both parties can be more happy during the date.
2. During the date
1. The early stage of the date
When dating, the first thing is to have a calm mind. The reason why many brothers have problems , a lot of it comes down to mentality, because the fact that a girl is willing to go out with you means that she has some basic good feelings. Don't be impatient during the process, be polite during the ice-breaking stage of the date, try to take care of every detail, and don't make mistakes is the key point to pay attention to during the early stage of the date.
2. Elevation during dating
During the process of dating a girl, the feeling of "politeness" must not be maintained for too long, otherwise the mood will be flat. There must be some content that can arouse girls' emotional ups and downs. The specific method is not to be too polite, you have to get some flowers out. This doesn't mean you have to be naughty or bad. But you must bring out some of your own points.
When the conversation is almost complete, you can gradually test physical contact:
A. Put your arms around your shoulders and hug your waist for a friendly hug
B. Holding hands and hugging affectionately
C. Kissing
D. TD
The above steps are carried out according to the process. If you encounter resistance from the girl at each step, retreat Just come back and relax the atmosphere at the same time so that both parties don't feel embarrassed. This can only be achieved by having more contact with girls and practicing adaptability. The other thing is to have super self-confidence and anti-attack ability, which will be discussed later.
3. Dating results
After dating a girl, I was immersed in wanting to be successful in dating. , you can’t be too purposeful, which will lead to deformities in mentality and speech. Especially when the girl's reaction is not very good, it is absolutely taboo to let the girl feel the purpose.
If you meet a girl you really want to get in touch with, it’s normal to have 2-5 dates in the early stage. Don’t pursue a one-time date to achieve a certain result. The latest thinking is that letting nature take its course may be more effective than you think. In addition, at the end of each date, keep a relaxed and happy ending to pave the way for the next date.
3. The core mentality of dating
1. Don’t be afraid of headwinds
Dating a girl is actually a bit similar to meeting a client to discuss a business. It is a two-way selection process. When we get along, we will inevitably get into some bad situations. In particular, introverted brothers can easily have their mentality seriously affected by the other person's not-so-good reaction, and thus give up on advancing the relationship.
In fact, chasing girls requires enough patience. Because there are too many flies around them, they are really indifferent to ordinary emotional advancement methods. When a girl responds indifferently to your topic or keeps playing with her mobile phone, in addition to using words to ask her to be more focused and attentive, you can also let nature take its course and let time pass for a while, and both parties can occasionally deal with it separately. It’s okay to use your cell phone and be quiet for a while. Then just keep talking. What to do: Don’t worry too much about the girl’s reaction to you, just be a decent yourself.
2. Make yourself happy
Many boys have lost the purpose of dating girls because they are too purposeful. The most authentic thing about dating: enjoying the moment. After finally asking the girl out to be alone with you, you should be in a relaxed and happy mood. Just want to be happy. If the whole body is tight, this feeling can easily be transmitted to girls with extremely sensitive sixth senses. I can relax and be happy, and at the same time, I can let the girl integrate into the atmosphere. This is a must for a successful date.
