In modern society, dating has become an indispensable part of people's lives. How to successfully finalize a date requires us to have enough patience and skills. This article will share my process of finalizing a date with a girl through a four-page chat.
1. Say hello
Me: Hello, nice to meet you.
Girl: Hello, nice to meet you too.
2. Greetings
Me: How are you doing? Busy?
Girl: It’s okay. I’m a little busy at work, but I can still cope with it.
3. Talk about hobbies
Me: What do you usually like to do?
Girl: I like watching movies, listening to music, traveling, etc.
Me: Wow, we have a lot in common! What's your favorite movie?
Girls: "Titanic".
4. Express ideas
Me: I think I can go to a movie this weekend. What do you think?
Girl: OK, what a great idea!
5. Determine the time and place
Me: Then let’s meet at the cinema in the city center at seven o’clock on Saturday night.
Girl: Okay, see you then!
6. Get to know each other
Me: Where are you from?
Girl: I am from Cantonese.
Me: Wow, can you speak Cantonese?
Girl: Of course!
7. Talking about work
Me: What are you doing now?
Girl: I am a marketing manager.
Me: Wow, that sounds awesome! What do you usually do?
Girl: Mainly planning and executing marketing activities, communicating with customers, etc.
8. Exchange contact information
Me: We can exchange phone numbers for easy contact.
Girl: OK, my phone number is xxx-xxxx-xxxx.
9. Confirm date details
Me: Then let’s confirm the time and place before we meet on Saturday.
Girl: Okay, see you then!
Through four pages of chatting, I successfully finalized a date with the girl. During the chat, we got to know each other, shared interests and hobbies, talked about work, etc., and became more familiar with each other. Finally, we decided on a time and place for the appointment and exchanged contact information. This chat not only allowed us to finalize the date, but also allowed us to get to know each other better.