The two of us had a good chat before going on a date with a girl. We felt that there was something interesting, so we made an appointment. The date was quite enjoyable, and we even chatted after we went back. But I don’t know why I found out a few days later. Girls gradually become cold, what should we do in this situation?
1. Reasons why girls become cold after dating
1. A girl discovers that you are different from what she imagined
An invitation can be achieved by combining early curiosity with basic attribute satisfaction and friendly chat preparation. After all, online chatting is There is a big gap between meeting offline and meeting offline, but girls definitely have to clear up the clouds and see the light of day. This situation is very uneasy especially for some friends who are afraid of society. They are afraid that they will not perform well. After meeting, Your original attributes will be exposed, and the girl will think that you are different from what she imagined.
2. The gap between online and offline is too big
Some boys may chat well with girls on WeChat, but when they meet in person, they will not chat due to various factors. Or some students don’t know how to chat on WeChat, but they do better when they meet in person. This situation will make girls feel that there is too big a gap, so after meeting each other for a day and going back, the girls become cold.
2. What to do if a girl becomes cold after dating
1. Cut off contact for a while h3>
Generally speaking, if you encounter this kind of situation, you need to disconnect for a week. If she comes to you during this period, you don’t have to respond very actively. You can reply quickly and slowly, with an indifferent attitude and framework. Go and have an interactive chat. If she doesn’t come to you, then take the initiative to restart contact after a week and find suitable life-oriented and stress-free topics to have a tentative interactive chat with her. Generally speaking, her response will not be bad at this time. .
2. Rebuild attraction
After reestablishing contact within a week, you need to rebuild your attraction, focusing on improving yourself, life, work, sports, study, hobbies, etc. Wait for these above. Then gradually display it through WeChat Moments. It must be authentic. Only authenticity can reflect your consistency.
3. Try to make an invitation
If the other party agrees to your invitation, then the focus of your date is It should be focused on cultivating comfort and establishing ambiguity. If you do this well, you can cultivate the feeling he wants.
