It’s definitely not possible to chase a girl just by chatting. If you want to upgrade the relationship, you have to turn chatting into dating. However, most boys have problems with the invitation. After all, it is difficult to get a girl to agree to the invitation. The second best thing is to make her agree to confess her feelings. So how can you ask a girl out to play without being rejected?

First of all, you must know that in the eyes of girls, dating is a very cautious matter. Maybe you can choose the person you want to chat with, but for dating However, the object must definitely be based on communication.

So, if you have a good chat with a girl, but you can't always make an appointment, then it's basically these two things. Reasons:

1. She doesn’t know you well enough and wants to check it out again.

　2. Hard values ??cannot keep up, such as appearance, work, etc. that do not meet her standards for mate selection. If you belong to the second situation, then what you have to consider is how to improve yourself.

Moreover, many boys approach girls in the wrong way. They are not only afraid that if they take the initiative to date a girl, their price will drop, but they are also afraid that if they suddenly ask a girl out, the other party may not be available.

There are also some older brothers who, as soon as they add a girl’s WeChat account and contact information, and after just a few words of chatting, without even saying a word about her horoscope, they directly ask the girl to come out for a dinner date with you.

The success rate of invitations under such circumstances will be high, but it will certainly not be very high.

So if you want to ask a girl out, or if you want to increase the success rate of asking her out, you must make an appointment with the girl in advance and give the girl time to prepare.

But when you make an appointment with the other party, you should try your best not to make an appointment with a girl with a great sense of need, and not to expose your needs in front of the girl. Only in this way can you greatly reduce the social pressure when you make an appointment. Below I will teach you 3 ways to ask a girl out to play.

1. Topic-guided invitation

Compared to asking a girl abruptly, "How about we meet?" "The topic-leading invitation method can not only conceal our sense of need to the greatest extent, but also make it difficult for girls to refuse.

For example, if you talk to a girl about food, and the girl says that she especially likes hot pot, you can invite her like this: "Really? When I passed by xx last time, I found that there was a new restaurant there. I bought a hot pot restaurant and the decoration is very unique. How about we try it another day?"

If a girl likes to take pictures, you can say this: "I went to 798 Art Square with my friends a few days ago. There is a new Internet celebrity wall there, which is particularly suitable for taking pictures. I think you might like this kind of place."

Faced with such an invitation, most girls will not refuse. However, it should be noted that it is best to send invitations based on girls’ own interests, otherwise they mayShe won't be interested.

2. Make use of invitations to group activities

When a girl refuses a boy’s invitation, it’s because she has no interest in him at all. In addition to good feelings, another reason may be embarrassment.

Many girls who have little love experience will feel nervous when alone with boys, fearing that they will not be able to find a topic to talk about.

Therefore, the success rate of asking her out will be higher if you find some familiar friends and ask her out, for example:

"I asked a few friends to go to the amusement park to play together on the weekend. You know me too, do you want to come with us?"

3. Pretend to be along for the ride

Sometimes, for those girls who have been unable to date many times, we can surprise them once. There may be unexpected effects.

For example: If this girl is at home, before you invite her, you can go to her house first, pretend to be passing by, and ask her to have a cup of coffee or have a meal together near her house. For girls, the sense of security is relatively high in a familiar environment. At this time, the success rate of invitations you send out will definitely be very high.

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