Some men think that the difficulty in chasing girls is dating - I can ask girls out, but I can't always develop a relationship. I chat well on WeChat, but I don't behave very well when I go on a date... …
In fact, if you want to have a successful date with a girl, you must meet the girl’s expectations of you before the date, or even exceed her expectations. Only in this way can the girl become obsessed with you. If you fail in everything , naturally it will be difficult to score a goal.
Clothes
This is a point that girls pay more attention to, because your clothes are intuitively defined It affects a girl’s impression of you on a date!
The way you dress is sunny and clean; the way you dress is sloppy; both of them show not only your clothes, but also how much you value this date. Your personality, your emotional color, some of your preferences, and even one of your habits will be revealed in your clothing.
People rely on clothes, Buddha relies on gold. If you wear different clothes to go on a date with a girl, you will give her a different feeling.
Body language
Body language, also known as body language, is a way of communicating using body movements or actions to replace or assist sounds, spoken words or other communication methods, including Various forms of non-verbal human communication, including the smallest movements that go unnoticed, such as blinking and slight movements of the eyebrows. Body language can be used in conjunction with facial expressions.
When people accept [information transmission], they not only refer to the language content, tone, and intonation, but also combine it with body language for comprehensive analysis.
In the process of transmitting information, pure language components only account for 7/100, and tone accounts for 38/100. The other 55/100 information needs to be conveyed by non-verbal body posture, and because body language usually It is a subconscious action of a person, so body language plays an important role in dating.
Eye contact
Why can scumbag men always seduce girls easily? Because they are better at using their eyes Communicating to express your emotions can quickly promote the development of a relationship between two people during a date.
Many honest people who are not confident usually tend to avoid making eye contact with girls when they are dating because they often feel nervous when they look at each other.
Couples who stare at each other during a date have been proven to increase their goodwill, so eye contact is also a very important dating skill.
Dating and chatting
On dates, many couples go through - eating, shopping, watching movies ——The partySome boys are not good at chatting, so they stay silent during the date, or force themselves to chat awkwardly with girls. This is obviously not good.
Before dating, men should prepare more topics for dating and chatting, consider various possible emergencies, and be prepared to deal with them calmly. Having prepared topics can help you be prepared, but how to deal with the situation unexpectedly? Having a good conversation will test your eloquence.
Men who are eloquent are more likely to attract girls on dates.