Dating a girl is the best opportunity to upgrade your relationship. If you fail to grasp it, your relationship will likely remain stagnant. Of course, upgrading your relationship does not mean that you have to do something to the girl. It is very easy to do so. Exceeding girls' psychological expectations makes girls resist. So what are some ways to improve your relationship with girls during a date?
Today I will explain to you the three principles of body movement during a date.
Principle 1: The girl is interested in you
Major premise, major premise!
Physical contact between girls who are not interested in boys is sexual harassment. Everyone must understand this truth. This is the main premise! If a girl doesn’t like you and doesn’t want you to touch her, then as a boy, you have to forcefully hold someone’s hand and touch their face. This is He won't be able to seduce girls, and will only get himself sent to the police station.
Only when a girl is interested in boys, will she accept our physical movements and achieve the purpose of improving the relationship.
How to judge whether a girl is interested in you and willing to accept physical contact with you?
You can pass some marginal behavior tests. For example, it is cold now and everyone is basically in a heated place. If you need to take off your coat, the boy can help the girl put her coat on when leaving. If a girl is willing to let you do this, congratulations, at least you can do things like holding hands.
Because although clothes are not part of the body, they are also external attachments to each of us and have a certain special meaning. Therefore, if a girl allows a boy to help her get dressed, it means that she has a certain recognition of you and does not reject close contact with you.
If the girl refuses, then we should be more conservative and focus on improving our goodwill first, and do not touch the girl's body at will.
Principle 2: No touching without reason
In the initial physical movement, we should pursue reasonable Only when you have evidence and legitimate reasons for contact can you move forward with the trend.
For example, you must have seen some traffic lights that are very short on one side and very long on the other. The short one can only allow pedestrians to walk across the zebra crossing. If you walk slowly, you may not be able to use it. At the end of the walk, the light turned red. At this time, we can hold the girl's hand and shout: "Go faster, this green light is only for a short time." Then take her over.
The reason we held her hand was to cross the zebra crossing before the red light.
When walking under the tree, some leaves fell on the girl’s head. We helped her pick off the leaves, and then helped her straighten her hair so that she could move around and touch her head.
Picking leaves and trimming hair are the reasons why we touch her head
Another example is taking photos of girls.When we were doing it, sometimes the girl's posture wasn't quite right, so we had to grab her arms and legs and play with her limbs to help her adjust.
Helping a girl pose well is the reason why we arrest her.
Reasons like these are within the scope of reasonableness and are legitimate contacts rather than physical contacts with bad purposes, so girls can easily accept them.
If you are face to face with a girl and suddenly reach out to touch her nose...or, like the brother at the beginning, hold the girl's hand as soon as they meet, this is all for no reason. Although we can forcefully interpret it as "your nose is cute" and "I want to get closer to you", this is a reason that can only be accepted by girls when the relationship is relatively close. Doing so directly in the early stage will make girls feel very offensive. .
Principle 3: Light contact, stay away
What is light contact?
< p> The initial contact should be polite contact, and the contact should be short and gentle (sensitive parts are an absolute no-no).Especially in the first one or two times, the first principle should be not to touch the girl’s skin. For example, when touching your head, only touch your hair and not your face. When holding her hand to cross the road, if it's winter, hold her arm, which is covered by clothing. If you wear short sleeves in the summer, you have to do the opposite. You can only hold hands, not pull arms. Because the skin on the arms, especially the inner side, is actually a more sensitive part of girls’ bodies.
Our physical movement is not to take advantage of the opportunity, but to give the girl a feeling of consideration and care for her, blurring the relationship and making it go beyond the boundaries of friendship. Then with each of our gentle and considerate actions, girls will have more special feelings for us, and the relationship will gradually develop in the direction of love.
If we want girls to like us, we must continue to output this special feeling. After accumulating to a certain level, quantitative changes will lead to qualitative changes, and the seeds of love will germinate in girls' hearts.
Therefore, you can’t do things like grabbing a girl’s hand and holding on to her face after crossing the street, pinching her face, or hugging a girl’s waist on the first date. These obviously aggressive behaviors will make a girl think that you are trying to take advantage of her, rather than being considerate and caring.
Of course, you don’t have to rigidly abide by the gentleman’s agreement just because of this, and only hold hands with girls every time. . We pay attention to the step-by-step approach, just like a bucket of water is gradually filled from empty to full, and feelings are accumulated bit by bit.
As the relationship heats up, you need to gradually open up the scope and scale to suit your current relationship with the girl. Once polite sexual contact has occurred several times and the girl does not resist, then we can graduallyUpgrade to touching her little face, kissing her forehead, and hugging her!
In fact, many times the opportunity for lovers to establish a relationship is when their emotions have accumulated to the point of explosion, and they can't help but touch each other. Sensitive part!
If you and a girl call each other "honey" very seriously, but you and she don't even kiss each other, and you only stop at holding hands, it would be a bit ridiculous. .
