If you ask a girl out and she refuses every time because she has something to do, she is probably rejecting you. Then do you know why every time you ask a girl out, she refuses you because she has something to do?

1 .Girls are really busy

If you don’t understand the girl’s work and rest time and schedule, blind invitation will only disturb the girl’s rest. Maybe she has already made arrangements for this day in advance, then Obviously it's inappropriate for you to make an invitation at this time. It's normal for a girl to reject you because she's busy.

2. You have exposed an excessive sense of need

For example:

Male: "Can I go on a date with you tomorrow?"

Female: "I have something to do tomorrow"

Male: "I just want to treat you to a meal"

< p> Female: "I really don't have time"

Male: "When will you have time?"

Female: "I don't know"

Male : "Is that possible this Sunday?"

Girl: "It depends on the situation."

Many boys will invite girls over and over again, regardless of the current situation between you and the girl. What's the matter? Inviting a girl like this will reveal a very strong sense of need. Even if the girl likes you and is willing to go out with you, your straight invitation reveals a sense of need. The girl is too stressed and can only be busy. Excuses to reject you.

3. Insufficient attraction to girls

The essence of love is mutual attraction, it is a mutual attraction. Warm and romantic.

If a girl is dating an idol that she likes very much, then she will be willing to go on the date no matter how busy she is, because this idol has a strong enough charm value; and if a girl always thinks that she is busy, Using excuses to reject you means that the charm you convey is not enough to attract girls, and being "busy" is far more important than going out on a date with you.

Therefore, if you want to ask her out, you need a rational reason. After all, most women are very reserved. Even if she is interested in you, she will cause trouble for you, so we can give girls a rational reason. Reasons to make her feel like going out with you is the right choice.

For example, you can say to a girl: "I know an Internet celebrity restaurant with a very nice atmosphere. Not only can you enjoy delicious food, but you can also take photos. ", or "A steak restaurant in XX is having an event these days. If you go to eat, you can participate in a lottery and receive gifts." Give girls a more attractive reason to invite.

Of course, there are techniques when inviting girls to talk. Try to use declarative sentences instead of questions.For example, "Can we go on a date tomorrow?" is changed to "I will take you to a super fun place tomorrow." The subtext is to imply that the girl is willing to go out with you. The possibility of the girl agreeing to you out of inertial thinking is very high.