Generally speaking, when they first start dating a girl, a boy will take the initiative to send the girl home out of gentlemanly manner. This is also a sign of responsibility for a girl. But what does it mean if a boy sends a girl home after a date and the girl refuses? Is it because girls don’t want to continue developing?
1. The girl feels that the relationship has not reached that point
After dating a girl, whether you should send her home depends on whether your relationship with the girl is close enough and your experience on the date. Good or bad. Many straight male friends have very different feelings about dating than girls. A good date is not about going through the process of eating and watching movies, but when a girl hangs out with you, you don’t have to be too tired, and you take care of her feelings. Interesting things.
On this basis, if you are dating for the purpose of developing male and female friends, and you want to send the girl home after the date, Then girls will also consider whether the relationship is in place. Girls may constantly rate you and consider whether it is appropriate to enter the next stage too quickly. These are all within the scope of girls' consideration. So after a date, when a boy sends a girl home and she refuses, it may be that the girl feels that your relationship has not reached that point.
What should we do in this situation?
First point, go on a few more dates. If the girl is still willing to come out next time, it means that the last date experience was not bad.
The second point is to take care of the girl’s feelings. The date can be arranged in advance, but don’t just focus on your own interests, learn more about the woman’s hobbies.
The third point is to go deep into the topic and make appropriate physical contact. Holding hands is the most basic, it is necessary to enter the next stage. The topics range from hobbies to things in life.
2. Depend on your purpose of sending a girl home
To judge what it means when a boy sends a girl home after a date and she refuses, you have to look at your purpose of sending a girl home. What purpose, then you can deduce what she means by rejecting you.
For example, out of politeness, you think you should send a girl home. The girl's refusal may be because she does not want you to be polite. Trouble;
If you send a girl home because you want to stay with her for a little longer, then she refuses because she doesn’t really want to stay with you for a little longer;
If you want to send her home by asking "Let's go to your house for a cup of coffee" downstairs, she refuses because she doesn't have coffee at home (haha, no, it's because she doesn't want to invite you to her house for coffee);</ p>
You want to see where a girl lives. She feels that she is not that familiar with you yet, and she doesn’t want you to know where she lives because she doesn’t know you well;
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You have a hundred reasons for wanting to send a girl home, and she also has a hundred reasons for refusing to send her home.Home reasons. In short, you don't have to guess what a girl is thinking. You just need to see how her chat interaction with you is after the date, whether she is willing to continue dating you, and whether your relationship is progressing slowly... that's it.
Of course, if a boy sends a girl home after a date and she refuses, another possibility is that the girl doesn’t want to have anything to do with you anymore, so she hopes that you won’t have any contact in the future, and she doesn’t want to live with you. The place is exposed to you to prevent you from pestering her.
