I don’t need to elaborate too much on the importance of dating a girl for the first time, because whether you can have contact with a girl in the future depends on the impression of the first date. If you leave a bad impression later It’s not easy to advance the relationship. So how do you plan your first date with a girl and leave a good impression on her?
1. Make careful plans before dating
Yes, careful planning means Plan A and Plan B. That's Plan A and Plan B. You said you had a good plan, what should you do if the store is not open? You said you had a good plan, but what should you do if it rains a lot after you go out and you can't have fun. This is where your plan B is needed.
When dating a girl for the first time, it is best to go through the process yourself first, such as where to eat, drink, and where to play. The most important thing is the direction. Don’t not know where you are going. It is a very base mistake to not be able to find where the store is after going on a date. Therefore, it is best to go through the process first. When you plan to go on a date, walk around and familiarize yourself with the route first.
Secondly, it is best to be familiar with the restaurant where you are going on a date. Never say that you don’t know what to eat when you go to order, your hands are shaking when you look at the menu, and you are very nervous when going out with a girl. This is not what you should do. of. How to do it? First, check out the menu in advance or choose a good restaurant that you often go to. When dating, you can relax and talk more about the other person and your own life, outlook on life, etc., and slowly let go of your nervousness.
2. Use the dating transition principle
If you stay in a scene for too long, people’s vision will Feeling tired. For example, if you and a girl sit in a cafe for a few hours without much topic, your eyes will start to blur. Dating you is not as good as looking at the people walking outside. At this time, girls will say: Dating you is boring, we are not suitable. Therefore, you can make reasonable use of dating transitions to increase girls' liking and freshness for you.
For example, if you and a girl feel unfamiliar when you first meet, you can walk around and chat first. Girls will feel safe in a crowded and lively place. If you feel that you understand each other well, you can go to a place with few people and sit alone to chat about life, your own experiences, etc. For example: cafe, garden seats, etc.
You should also prepare 2 to 3 date scenes in advance. You can go to a quiet place first, and then go to a lively and active place. From eating to going to a game arcade or amusement park, these are great ways to change places. Quiet dating places: coffee shops, restaurants, seats with few people, movie theaters, Internet celebrity stores, etc. Active dating venues: amusement parks, game arcades, disco nightclubs.
When changing dating venues, boys must lead girls. It is best if you take the initiative and let girls just follow you. Don’t let her think about where to go. Girls already like it. The boy who leads her.
3. Don’t be too formal on a date
What is formal: candlelight dinner, confession balloon lighting, private restaurant, private movie. These can show that you value her very much. But at the same time, it puts a lot of pressure on girls. These are used to commemorate your relationship, such as the 100th day of love, wedding anniversary, and engagement. You don’t need to be so extravagant in normal times, and they are more down-to-earth for girls. Feel better. The most important thing when dating a girl for the first time is a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere
