The first date is very important, because this date determines your first impression in the other person's mind, and there is no need to say more here about how important the first impression is. What should you do if your first date is terribly awkward?

1. Communicate by voice before the first date

If you haven’t had one before the date If you have made a phone call or sent a voice message, there may be a big distance between you when you meet for the first time, so you need to use your voice to let the other party know you better and exchange each other's good feelings.

After communicating through voice, you will definitely feel that the distance between the two people is not so far away. In this way, we will be familiar with each other's voices, and it will not cause embarrassment when we go out, because both parties will think that this person is the person I have talked to before.

Also, you can make her feel that you are a person with excellent quality and education through your words. If her words make you very uncomfortable, then there is no need for you to see her again. , which is also a layer of screening.

2. Don’t sit face to face on a date

Remember, if you feel the same when you meet If it’s unfamiliar, don’t try to choose a date scene where you sit face to face. This will be more awkward, because in the beginning, girls may be shy and the atmosphere will be awkward.

For your first date, give priority to a place where you can sit side by side, such as a park bench, a bar, a movie theater, a unique coffee shop, etc. You can sit side by side and your bodies will be very close.

In fact, this is what dating is about giving girls the feeling that you are actually getting along appropriately and not awkwardly. It is important to make girls feel comfortable with you.

3. Maintain reserved physical contact with girls

First of all, your first glance is very important. Smile and give her a look you haven't seen in a while.

Secondly, shake hands or talk to her. Don’t stare at your own hand when shaking hands. Be sure to look at the other person’s eyes. Just hold it for a second or two. Don’t make the girl feel uncomfortable. .

Again, you can say in a soft voice: "We finally meet, nice to meet you." At this time, the atmosphere will relax a lot. This is language contact.

Generally speaking, for the first date, you must make some preparations in advance. Use voice communication first, prepare some interesting stories, avoid sitting face to face, and make appropriate physical contact.

On your first date, doing the above three points will definitely make your date no longer awkward and make the girl’s impression of you double.