One-on-one blind dates are actually very important. If the first blind date makes a girl think that you are a very nice man, then your subsequent emotional development will naturally be easy to follow. Otherwise, the one-on-one blind date can only be the last time you meet.
How to make girls think you are nice? You can quickly improve your attractiveness in the eyes of girls from these 6 basic aspects!
1. Pay attention to appearance
Neat, clean and well-fitting clothing is essential.
Isn’t there a saying that “it starts with appearance”.
Since you can’t change your appearance, just keep your clothes on.
Dressing well can not only leave a good first impression on the other party, but also make the other party feel that you care about the blind date, thus making the other party feel that they are cared about.
2. Stable mentality
Many people feel uneasy when going on a blind date.
This leads to people not knowing how to respond when going on a blind date, hesitating and making the other person feel dull and uninteresting.
In the end, I couldn’t say a few words and ended hastily.
A very good friend of mine is extremely nervous every time we go on a blind date. Every time it ends after a few words, he is still single.
Actually, there’s nothing to be nervous about. The worst result is that the other party doesn’t like us.
It’s nothing, just treat it as normal.
3. Be assertive when eating
When you are on a blind date, you will inevitably have to eat together, so what should you eat? Where should we go to eat?
Regarding this, you can ask the girl for her opinion first and see if there is anything she particularly wants to eat.
But most girls will obey boys’ arrangements.
When encountering this situation, boys must have their own opinions and arrangements.
Where to eat and what to eat should be thought about before going on a blind date.
You can choose several suitable restaurants and meals in your mind.
If a girl doesn’t have any special taboos, then just take the other person there directly.
Don’t always worry about what to eat and where to eat. This will make the other party think that you have no opinion and will also be quite embarrassing.
4. Take the initiative to pay the bill
When going on a blind date, whether it is eating or watching a movie, boys should actively pay the bill and be more generous with money.
When a boy is dating a girl, being too fussy about money will make people feel too petty.
Boys who are too stingy are the least attractive to girls.Acceptable.
This is also what girls complain about most when they give me feedback.
Of course, this refers to the kind of normal blind date. If you accidentally encounter a "food supporter", don't hesitate and run away.
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5. Interactive blind date chat
When chatting, don’t act like you are checking your household registration. If you keep asking, it will turn people off.
Don’t be self-centered and keep talking without giving the other person a chance to speak.
So what should I say?
While taking the initiative to introduce yourself, consciously guide the other party and give the other party a chance to speak and show to achieve effective communication.
Of course, on the first blind date, you can also understand each other’s situation without being too anxious, and chat about daily life and views on life, which can also achieve good communication and bring the hearts closer.
6. Send the girl home
After the blind date, take the initiative to send the girl home.
After two or three times, if the other person still insists on refusing, then send the other person to the bus stop or call a taxi for the other person, and watch the other person get in the car before leaving.
In addition, calculate the time for the other person to go home, and take the initiative to ask the other person if they are home.
This will not only make the other person feel that you respect her and value her, but also make her feel that you are warm and considerate.
