Judging the situation is a very important ability in dating. If you misjudge the situation, there will be a big discrepancy between your expectations and reality! How to judge a girl’s feelings for you on the first date What about your feelings? What are the symptoms of a failed first date? These 3 symptoms indicate that it is impossible for you.
1. Emergencies
1) There is a fire at home? I have to go home Put out the fire.
2) Oops, why do you have a stomachache!
3) What, you don’t have toilet paper in college? Wait, I’ll bring it to you right away.
4) I’m not feeling well, so I’m sorry to take the first step.
5) Sorry, my friend suddenly entered the hospital...
On the first date, the girl hasn’t even said a few words to you, and then something unexpected happens. I'll tell you the situation and tell you that you have to leave.
How could there be such a coincidence? These so-called emergencies are actually just excuses for girls to leave immediately. It means that as soon as she sees you, she has no expectations to continue dating. Basically, At that moment you can already declare - you are out of luck.
2. Chat atmosphere
If you find that you are not having a good chat with the other party, you can say a lot , she replies to you um, ah, oh! It means that she does not understand your desires. If you don't make changes, there's basically no chance.
Although it is the first time to chat, the two people should still basically cooperate. If on the first date, the girl does not even have the desire to cooperate with you in chatting, you will be the only one throughout the whole process. If someone talks to themselves, or you force an awkward conversation, then the girl's attitude has already sent a clear signal - you are out of luck.
However, some girls are still more tactful and will try their best to cooperate with you on the first date. After the first date, they start to ignore you. This is to tell you: you are no longer getting along. It's necessary.
3. Sense of distance
There is always a sense of distance between people. People's sense of distance will behave differently.
On a first date, girls usually behave in a gentle, cute, polite, and amiable manner to show their reserve.
If a girl keeps this sense of distance from you, it means that your first date may not work, because she does not want to have subsequent development with you, so she will not show more true feelings. Self - personality, emotions, preferences, etc.
The sense of distance is essentially a reflection of the degree of your relationship. From the beginning to the end of the first date, the sense of distance between you and the girlIf there is no change at all, then it means that you have not made the girl interested, which means that there is no possibility for you.