When it comes to going on a date to eat, according to traditional customs, generally speaking, the boy pays the bill, and then there are two men and women. However, what does it mean when a girl takes the initiative to pay for the date? Reciprocity, cherish the initiative to pay. girls.

1. Girls paying the bill does not mean they reject boys

Once they meet for the first time, and She won't let boys spend money just because of a date. On the one hand, it is due to her personality and habits. From the side, she is a very independent girl. Moreover, why can’t girls pay the bill? Who says that it must be the boy’s responsibility to pay the bill?

Secondly, you have not confirmed the relationship, and it is possible to express your "acceptance" or "rejection" by having a meal. Sex is also relatively minor. If she does not express her rejection clearly, then she must hope that both parties will be equal in love instead of becoming a subordinate of the boy.

Third, the girl pays the bill, and the boy can take the initiative to make another date and reciprocate. If you like or want to have a serious relationship with the other person, isn’t it an opportunity to deepen communication?

2. The girl pays the bill, or the AA system can avoid misunderstandings

First of all, when you meet for the first time, the amount of consumption will be more or less, 99% of the time Boys will think that they should pay for it themselves, and this seems to have become a common practice. Girls footing the bill can prevent boys from feeling "consumed".

Second, girls pay the bill, sending a positive signal, "I have a good job", "I don't need you to support me", "You and I are equal", elegant, generous and independent , buying an order is just a small matter.

Third, did you take the initiative to pay the bill? Her decision to pay may have come from your hint. Your reaction and your attitude may be the reason for her decision to pay. She pays the bill, what are you doing?

3. If a girl pays the bill, she may refuse

Pass During the meal, I got to know this boy's mannerisms to a certain extent, and found that he was not my type. I didn't want to talk to him anymore, so I didn't want to owe him even a meal.

If you think the girl has a crush on you, then you might as well make an appointment another day, invite her to dinner or coffee, reciprocate politely, and take the relationship further.

I think boys themselves should be able to judge whether they refuse or hope to reciprocate by looking at girls’ emotions or scoring their own performance.