Blind date is a traditional and realistic social phenomenon. Although now is the era of free love, many crazy men and women do not know how to pursue the person they like, so they have no choice but to go on blind dates to find a partner.
Although the people you meet on one-to-one blind dates are uneven, blind dates are still more efficient than falling in love! However, some blind dates have never even been in love, and they have I don’t know how to express myself during a one-on-one blind date.
Notes on one-on-one blind dates
First of all, don’t be too impatient during one-on-one blind dates. Some singles feel that it is rare to have such a "date" opportunity, so they have a strong desire to perform in their hearts. For this reason, they unconsciously perform some characteristics that they do not originally possess.
As everyone knows, using too much force will leave a bad impression on girls - this person is very fake/very pretentious/very exaggerated... Xiaoyu Love emphasizes that during a one-on-one blind date, Qian Don't be too impatient and use real and natural expressions as much as possible
During a blind date, you must have some normal communication with the girl so that you can have a deeper understanding of each other. Therefore, when chatting on a blind date, Be sure to pay more attention to the differences in thinking between the sexes!
Don’t impose your own thinking on the other person. The topics you are interested in, The other person may not be interested, and don’t rush to judge things, blindly define things, or force the other person to agree with your point of view! These are all issues that you should pay attention to when chatting on a blind date.
Because they usually neglect dressing up, many people also have a "casual" attitude when going on a blind date. They dress casually and go on a one-on-one blind date. This will not give a good impression. Men When going on a blind date, try to look energetic and sunny.
How to behave in a one-to-one blind date
1. Neat clothes
Neat clothes are the basic criteria for girls to choose a mate. If they are on a blind date, they are If you look sloppy, girls will definitely not be attracted to you. "Neatness" is not limited to the overall situation, but more about the details. In addition to dressing in a sunny and clean manner, there are other problems, such as oily heads, bad breath, dirty shoes... …
2. Elegant speech
When dating one-on-one, don’t use catchphrases, because you don’t know whether the other party can accept your catchphrases (such as “Ci’ao”) . When talking to girls, avoid being overbearing, joking, teasing, etc. Elegant speech will make a girl feel that you respect her, so she can have a more in-depth communication with you.
3. GenerousBehavior
Girls hate and even look down on men who are vulgar, cowardly, and hesitant. Therefore, in a one-on-one blind date, generous behavior will make you more popular.
4. Sincere attitude
A sincere attitude is very important when looking for a date. If you are pretentious or use your acting skills to deceive the other party, you will easily be disliked by the other party. , pass you directly. In the establishment of any relationship, sincerity is a must.
