Although love is tolerance, love is also a process of mutual companionship and mutual growth. Therefore, if you discover the other party's shortcomings during a date, it is still necessary to point them out after the date.

Of course, if it is not a big issue of principle, just let it go. Everyone's experience of life is different. One is honey and B is arsenic. Sometimes it is impossible to understand others from your own perspective. At this time, not criticizing or criticizing is the greatest gentleness.

But if it is a matter of principle, it is necessary to point it out. It may put the two people in an embarrassing situation when pointing it out, but if the other person really loves you, the other person will understand you. And change these determinations. If you choose to ignore these shortcomings, after you confirm the relationship, these shortcomings are likely to become a bar between your feelings.

Of course, when pointing out that the other party is sure, you should pay attention to the occasion, attitude and tone. It is best to tell him his shortcomings before giving them to him. A corrective method and measure, otherwise it will look like disgust and complaints, which can easily lead to conflicts.

Also, after pointing out the other party’s shortcomings, you may also be prepared to have the other party point out their shortcomings. At this time, you must be mentally prepared and don’t react too excitedly, otherwise the other party may Say, "I just said this to you and you are so angry with me that you just said that about me." Also, you have to give the other person a step back, or change the topic in a clever and non-embarrassing way. You are most afraid that the atmosphere will suddenly become awkward after you finish speaking.

After all, if you want to go on for a long time, don’t ask him to get rid of all his problems. Tolerance is the main thing Yes, you can mention it, but you must love her as always.