When you ask a girl out for dinner for the first time, if some details are not done well, it is easy for the goodwill that has been established to collapse. Therefore, it is necessary to make complete preparations before the date. Then ask a girl out for the first time. What preparations should be made for meals?
1. Understand what girls like to eat
During a date, we must lead the girl, so on the first date When a girl eats, she must not be allowed to decide what to eat. But if the restaurant you choose does not suit girls' taste, it is easy to lose your favorability.
Therefore, before we eat, we have to ask girls what they like to eat before making a decision.
For example:
Do you like spicy food or non-spicy food? (If girls don’t eat spicy food, they can exclude some spicy food, such as Sichuan, Xinjiang, and Hunan Food)
What kind of food do you like? (Generally, Japanese food, French food, Shandong food, Sichuan food can be used as examples)
Is there anything you particularly like or avoid? (Girls) If you don’t like greasy food, don’t choose barbecue or hot pot)
2. The environment where you eat should be good
When you ask a girl to eat for the first time, you must choose a restaurant with a good environment. There should be neither too many people nor queues.
For example, a relatively elegant and quiet Western restaurant is a good choice. Of course, any restaurant with relatively few people can be used as a date location. It doesn’t matter what you ask a girl to eat. You can chat with the girl during the meal and let the girl Feeling happy is the key.
3. Seize the opportunity to chat
When eating with a girl, if you keep chatting with the girl, it will make her feel annoyed, but if you keep eating without talking, it will be easy to be embarrassed. Therefore, it is very important to grasp the timing of chatting during meals.
Before the meal, you can tell some jokes or compliments as well as the advantages of the restaurant. Such topics are usually relatively short, so as not to make the atmosphere less awkward.
After all the dishes are served, you can briefly introduce some of your views on food, but don’t pretend to know much about it, and don’t pick up dishes for girls during the meal.
4. Selection of chat content
Show your wit skillfully
Girls Most of the boys like to be quiet and interesting. When meeting a girl for dinner for the first time, they cleverly show off their wit and make the girl happy. This will make the meal very enjoyable for you, and it will also make her like you more.
You can look at the girl’s clothing (usually girls will tidy up when dating a boy), and remember to like it when they meet.Beautify: "Wow, I didn't look carefully just now, you are really beautiful today" and so on. You can also compliment the other person's hairstyle, dress, temperament, etc.
Of course, the humorous topics here must not be pornographic or forced. You can talk to girls about interesting things in life or embarrassing things when you were a child, so that there will be no embarrassment before waiting for the food to be served. .
Express your concern appropriately
When you ask a girl out to eat, you must take good care of her and pay more attention to her. Help her pour water and wash the dishes, and show your gentlemanly side. Able to leave a good impression on girls during dinner dates.
5. Make the next invitation vaguely
Having a meal with a girl for the first time is just the beginning. It is also a test of the girl’s attitude towards the girl. At this time, you can prepare for the next date. Warm up, for example:
"Recently, another store opened here. I heard that their grilled fish is very delicious. Didn't you just say that you like to eat it? Let's try it together next time."
"You said you like xxx? I know there is a shop that makes very authentic xxx. Do you want to go and try it next time?"
This is the time to observe the girl's reaction. , if she says yes quickly, it means there is something going on. If her response is not enthusiastic and a little perfunctory, then you need to work harder.
6. Pay the bill with excuses
When you feel that the meal is about the same, you can ask the girl How was your meal? Then get up early and go to the counter to pay. Don’t buy on the spot. Then when you come back, don’t leave in a hurry. You can suggest:
There was a xxx movie released recently. I heard that it had high ratings. Do you want to go? Take a look?
There is a newly opened folk song shop nearby. Do you want to go inside?
Do you like xxx (billiards, video games and other entertainment venues)? There is one nearby , go over and play for a while?
Go ask the girls for their opinions and see if they want to go. If the girls are not interested or don’t want to go, then don’t force them and send them back honestly.
Finally, let me give you a little tip that can double a girl’s affection for you: after the first date, remember to ask the girl if she got home safely, and then continue the topic. As for what to talk about next? Editor Here’s a teaser, if you want to know, you can scan the QR code below to learn more.
