It is definitely not possible to chase a girl just by chatting. After chatting to a certain level, if you want to continue to upgrade the relationship, you still need to ask the other person out. But many boys fail every time they invite someone. They don’t know how to invite girls before they are willing to come out. Below, the editor will share with you some language routines for asking a girl out. If you ask a girl like this, she will definitely not reject you.
1. First confirm whether the girl is available
If you want to ask a girl out, the best thing to do is The most important thing is to first know whether she is free on the day of your invitation.
Imagine if a girl has made a travel plan with her friends and is ready to go. At this time, you invite a girl to have a big dinner. For a foodie, a girl would definitely not be able to resist the temptation of being treated to a meal. Moreover, the opportunity is rare. It's a pity that you asked the girl out at the wrong time, so I can only refuse your invitation.
Before making an invitation, make sure that the girl has no arrangements and is free, and your success rate will be greatly improved.
Smart boys usually do this: "It's finally time to finish the week's work. Where are you going to get high on the weekend?" or "It's going to be a wonderful weekend again, and you can go out and have fun again." In this way, you can guide the girl to tell you her arrangements and then determine whether you should invite her.
2. Invite girls when they are in high spirits
Girls will always be influenced by their own emotions. So, if you want her to accept your invitation, the time of your invitation must be when she is in a high mood.
If a girl is not in a high mood, she may have just had trouble with her family, or she may not be feeling well, so don’t invite her at this time.
At this time, what we should do is to stimulate the girl’s emotions, talk about interesting topics, and make humorous jokes. When her emotions are mobilized by you and she gives you some positive feedback, This is the perfect time to make an invitation.
3. Date time selection
Women are different from men. They invest a lot of time before going out. Yes, in order to meet you, she has to take a shower, put on makeup, blow dry her hair, choose clothes, and fix her image and details, which will take at least an hour. You should give her enough time to deal with these things calmly.
Don’t make an appointment to meet in a week or even a month. Over time, it will reduce each other's enthusiasm and increase a lot of uncertainty.
Generally, appointments are made one or two days in advance, and the appointment time is preferably on weekday evenings or weekend afternoons and evenings.
4. Selection of date content
Before inviting a girl, you must first clarify the content of the invitation, including date, location, and where. Let’s meet and see what projects we have. It is impossible to wait until a girl meets you before you go where you want to go or find a random place. This way the girl will think that you have no decision-making ability.
If a girl comes out with you, you must confirm these things in advance and familiarize yourself with the environment and surrounding conditions in advance to facilitate the girl's time arrangement and travel convenience. The routine for a regular date is to have a cup of coffee, have a meal, or watch a movie. But unexpected situations may arise, so plan B should be prepared in advance. For example, the coffee shop is full and there are no seats. You need to quickly adjust the date content. You can change to another drink shop to give the girl a good experience.
Of course, no matter how powerful the routine is, there is no guarantee that the invitation will be 100% successful. Therefore, even if the invitation is rejected, don’t be discouraged or affect your mentality. This is normal. thing.
Sometimes invitation failures are not always your fault. Maybe you two are not familiar enough, or maybe she is lying and is afraid of being exposed, so she deliberately rejects you, or she is insecure about herself, etc.
In short, don’t speculate on the whole story, keep your mind calm, don’t get emotional, and instead accept her and her decision.
Of course, the language routine for asking a girl out does not require you to maliciously deceive the girl. On the contrary, you have to consider the problem from the girl's perspective. Only then will you know what her concerns are and what you need to do to eliminate her. I agree to go on a date with you.