When dating a girl, if you want to heat up the relationship quickly, physical contact is very important, but the physical contact should not be too abrupt, otherwise it will only have the opposite effect. So how should we reasonably engage in physical contact on a date?
1. The movement of the movement must be gentle
This is easy to understand, all you need to do is Small, gentle movements are invisible but real, such as the slight touch of arms, the occasional friction of thighs when sitting together, etc.
In fact, the relationship between men and women requires uncertainty. Maybe some inadvertent small actions will make the other person suddenly think that you are like an older brother, but it goes beyond this relationship. This It will make her guess your intentions and become curious about you, so the time you spend seeing each other will naturally increase, and the chance of your relationship heating up will naturally increase.
2. Let go after moving in
After you touch a girl inadvertently, You have to take the initiative to let go first, otherwise your intentions will be exposed. Of course, doing this also gives her a sense of uncertainty, so that she will think about, or even miss, the feeling just now.
In addition, this will also make the girl feel like she is playing a game. In fact, the break between you and the girl is when you are emotionally connected. This feeling of game will make her have feelings for you. Interest and feelings will naturally heat up quickly.
3. Reasonable excuses for moving in and out
The most important point is that in the process of physical contact You must have a reasonable excuse. For example, when you cross the road, you not only give the other person a feeling of "be careful when you hold my hand when crossing the road", but also a considerable part of the other person's attention and effort is to pay attention to the traffic situation (this is a human survival instinct decision. ), so I don’t think about whether your actions are appropriate, or whether they are in line with the current relationship.
The core concept of Jino is to give meaning to Jino, that is, what you want to do is consistent with your situation. For example, when crossing the road, girls hold hands awkwardly and forcefully not to protect each other, which is generally unacceptable to girls. The advantage of giving meaning to Kinno is that it rationalizes your behavior and increases your success rate.
So our correct approach is to always stand on the side of the oncoming car when crossing the road. If a girl is on the side of the oncoming car, you can gently pinch the girl with your index finger and thumb. The clothes on the shoulders indicate to girls to adjust their position with him.
After adjusting the position, put your hands down naturally, and keep your eyes looking in the direction of the oncoming car the whole time. It will not appear vulgar but will appear caring, fun and interesting, then your relationship will grow unconsciously.Time is heating up.
