The impression you leave on a girl on the first date will directly affect how easy it is for you to pursue her later. Therefore, if you want to pursue a girl, you need to know how to leave a good impression on her on a date. Next, I will reveal to you the secret techniques to make girls miss you during a date:

1. See that you want to meet Make the subject smile again in one second

This is a very simple but very effective trick. People who don't smile when you first meet them are usually seen as serious, in a bad mood, or not easy to get along with. So we often see "smiling" among the interpersonal skills, but in fact, people who smile too often are less likely to be taken seriously. So we need to pay attention to some special techniques:

When meeting for the first time (in fact, it can be used no matter how many times you meet), after seeing the other party, wait 1 second (or 0. Laughing), this will allow the other party to absorb a hint subconsciously. Smiling when seeing the other party = seeing the other party is very happy, so smiling = the other party feels that they are valued.

2. Put energy on others

The core concept is "Everyone, the most important thing You are yourself." So when you can do the opposite, it is easy to make others like you. 1.

When facing a shy person, reveal yourself first. When facing a person who likes to express himself, let the other person talk more about themselves unless necessary. Shy people usually have to reveal themselves first through the other person before they feel safe enough to share themselves.

First let the other party finish what he wants to say, and after listening to make sure the other party has finished speaking, express your own thoughts. This is a way to express your importance and make the other party feel that your thoughts and opinions are complete. After receiving it, you think about it before asking questions and continuing the topic. It will make the other person feel respected.

Spend 60% of the time looking at the other person’s eyes while talking, and 40% of the time looking away to think. People will feel stressed when they receive excessive eye contact, but it is also not good to not make eye contact at all. Looking into other people's eyes while listening to them is a sign of respect, attention and confidence. Eye contact and eye contact are also a very important part of non-verbal communication between people.

3. Let yourself relax before meeting

If you feel comfortable, the other person will also feel comfortable with you. In fact, the influence of the atmosphere is like a wrestling match. Whoever wavers first will be led by the other person. When a very nervous person and a very relaxed person get together, it is usually the more relaxed person who can infect the nervous person, because people like to move towards a comfortable atmosphere, and the "nervous" emotion itself is inherently It's very unstable, so it's easy to be influenced by others, isn't it?Becoming more nervous means being led into a more comfortable atmosphere by relaxed people.

4. Laugh before the other person

Adding self-deprecating words is actually helpful for relief A serious atmosphere is very effective. Usually when there is tension between people, both parties must be careful not to offend the other party. Under such circumstances, it is even more impossible to laugh out loud. But if you offend yourself first, the other person's cautious atmosphere will also be reduced. Laughing out loud is also a way to lighten the atmosphere and make the other person feel that it's okay to laugh too, but that doesn't mean you should act like a clown to be funny or please others. Instead, Chu Dong first released a kind of kindness that said, "You can relax a little in front of me."