When chasing girls, dating is the best time to upgrade the relationship. However, girls are not so easy to date. In addition to being directly rejected by the invitation, we may also encounter situations where she directly does not reply to messages. In this case, we should What should I do?

1. Direct invitation without replying to the message

Most boys are When I ask a girl out, I always use the direct invitation method.

With this kind of invitation method, if you don’t make enough preparations, your reply will basically be rejection. Some girls will even choose not to reply to the message.

Therefore, if you want to avoid this situation, you must make preliminary preparations. For example, find out about good girls’ free time, dating projects that girls love, cultivate good girls’ basic affection for you, etc.

If a girl’s favorability towards you is average or even very bad, the probability of being rejected by the girl if you invite her directly is extremely high. After all, going to an appointment requires a lot of time and energy for girls. For example, wash your hair, put on makeup, choose clothes, etc. If a girl doesn't have much desire to meet you, these resistances will become her excuses for not going to the date.

2. Not replying after a vague invitation

Some boys know some tricks before inviting you. I know how to test a girl's attitude and have made a vague invitation. However, when the time and place of the date are actually finalized, there may be situations where the girl does not reply to the message.

After all, a vague invitation is not a direct invitation. Most girls will not refuse directly, but this does not mean that girls will actually go on the date. The other party may just talk about it, but she has never considered dating you in her heart. Therefore, when you really want to ask her out and she doesn't want to accept it, she will naturally choose not to reply to the message.

You must know that before any girl agrees to a boy's invitation, she will first comprehensively consider whether the date with the boy is worth it. Therefore, if her affection for you is average and her emotional purchase is not high enough, even if she agrees to your vague invitation, the final result may be rejection. But since I have agreed to your vague invitation before, rejecting it directly would seem to be dishonest, so I simply don’t reply to your message.

3. Not replying to the invitation before leaving

The last situation is that you have already confirmed it with the girl After finishing the whole invitation, when it was time to go to the appointment, the girl suddenly stopped replying to the message. This situation is commonly known as letting go. If the other person doesn't even bother to tell you a reason, just breaks the appointment and doesn't reply to the message, it is recommended to just give up and don't waste any time on her. This kind of girl is not reliable.

Of course, there are situations where girls do encounter emergenciesPlease do not miss the appointment. But most people will give you an explanation after finishing their work. A girl who doesn't even bother to explain means that she doesn't care about your feelings at all, so I suggest you just give up.