Question: I am a male and would like to ask the teacher, do I need to prepare a gift when meeting a girl on a blind date for the first time? Because we have been chatting on the mobile phone before, and because the meeting time is around the Chinese Valentine's Day, it seems not good to go empty-handed, so I want to ask if I need to prepare a gift for meeting a girl on a blind date for the first time!
Should I bring a gift for my first blind date?
Answer: I don’t need to prepare a gift for my first blind date with a girl on a blind date. Why do I say that?
Even if you prepare a gift for the girl you are dating in advance, in theory, it will be an item that will give you extra points. But it also depends on whether you know how to choose gifts. This is also a measure of your vision and financial ability.
If the gift you give to your first blind date is too expensive, the girl you are dating will feel unbearable and have a psychological burden; if What you give will make the girl you are dating feel disgusted or not like it, which will be self-defeating. Of course, it also depends on the other party's opinion on the matter, so it also needs to be differentiated.
Besides, if you prepare a gift for a girl on a blind date, but she doesn’t prepare anything at all, will she feel embarrassed or embarrassed? Or, you brought a relatively expensive gift, but you didn’t like the girl you were dating. If you gave it, it might be a waste of money. Could it be that you stopped giving it temporarily?
Then for example, for example, you specially made cookies with your own hands, but the other party didn’t eat them at all, or they had to go to other places to do errands after meeting, and they didn’t even take the things in your exquisite packaging bags. It’s convenient, but it’s rude not to charge. Well-meaning, but causing trouble.
So I think if you are not absolutely sure, you should not prepare gifts for the first time you meet.
Moreover, the essence of a blind date is to discuss business (both parties will examine each other’s conditions), and by the way, talk about emotional matters. So the first meeting on a blind date is probably equivalent to meeting a friend you don’t know very well. Think about it, would you bring some gifts to such a friend? The answer is of course not, so just treat it with a normal mind.
Of course, if you know enough about girls on blind dates. Considering all aspects, you are also very satisfied with the girl on the blind date, then it is certainly a good choice for you to give her a gift that suits her wishes. As mentioned above, it is a bonus item and can make the girl on the blind date also like you. The premise is You need to make sure that the gift you give will not go wrong, and you need to make sure that the girl on the blind date is really the one you want to choose, otherwise your gift may not have any effect in the end.
Therefore, if you consider it comprehensively, it is better not to give a gift when you meet your date for the first time, at least you will not make a mistake.
