Although a boy does not ask girls to spend money for him during a date, if a girl watches the boy spend money to buy this and that every time they date, she will not even make a move to pay. If you have never bought milk tea for a boy, he will actually feel a little confused. Is it worth continuing to date a girl who never pays for dating?
1. Is a girl interested in you?
In fact, before boys ask the question "A girl who never pays for dates is worth continuing to date", there should be a premise, that is, girls Is it interesting to you? Maybe you think it’s appropriate for you to spend money on girls, but girls should also express their feelings, such as pretending to take out their wallets when eating, buying tickets for a movie while she buys water, or buying you a cup of coffee. However, the analysis of these questions is limited to your own observations, and only her interaction patterns with you. The reliability of this conclusion is affected by many other factors. In other words, it is unscientific to make broad inferences about what kind of person she is based on the particularity of her interaction with you.
Don’t think about whether dating a girl who never pays is selfish and wants to take advantage, whether it is worth dating or getting married. You first think about whether she is interested in you, understand! Without premises, analysis and guidance are meaningless.
2. Look at the relationship between the girl and you
1. The girl has no definite relationship with you
If you and a girl are still in the contact and understanding stage, you are not officially together yet. With all due respect, wouldn't a girl feel guilty if a boy she's not sure about the relationship spends money on for her but doesn't pay for it herself? Ordinary good girls won't be like this. If a girl is like this, it can only mean that you may have met a money-worshiping bitch. She only wants to benefit from you and doesn't want to fall in love with you at all.
When a good girl first comes into contact with a boy, everything is clearly settled, one late night snack and one fast food (she is so poor). She will not refuse when you treat her, but she will do it next time. Please remember to come back. Because the relationship between men and women was equal at the beginning, she was embarrassed to only let the boys spend money.
2. After the girl has established a relationship with you
Even if you have established a relationship with the girl, It should just be the boy who spends the money alone. Doesn’t it make a girl feel bad that her boyfriend spends money every time once they are in a relationship? And girls who really want to make it to the end will also have financial plans and want their boyfriends to save money for future life, so they will automatically bear part of the financial pressure, save money, and will not pester them at every turn. My boyfriend buys bags and cosmetics.
Generally speaking: Although girls who never pay for dates may not seem like a big problem, but after a closer look, there are actually quite a lot of problems.Yes, I hope I pay more attention.
