As an authentic Sichuanese, I usually choose hot pot for gatherings with friends, so many boys will also choose to eat hot pot when preparing for their first date with a girl. But many people say that eating hot pot on the first date is taboo. If you take a girl to eat hot pot on the first date, it may make your date look bad. Let’s analyze what you would like to do.
1. Put yourself in someone else’s shoes
Why don’t you take a girl to eat hot pot on the first date? Many boys don’t think in someone else’s shoes. You can imagine yourself as the girl who goes on an appointment. When the man asks you to meet for the first time, the woman will definitely dress herself up beautifully in order to show her sincerity, put on beautiful makeup, and then go out dressed up.
At this time, when a man invites a girl to dinner, he must choose a refreshing and clean place. Most restaurants and Japanese restaurants are suitable for meeting for the first time. As a result, you invited someone to a hot pot restaurant...
Maybe the girl took a few bites of the food and ran out of lipstick. The soup in the pot spilled out, my clothes were ruined, and my throat felt uncomfortable and I had to keep clearing it, so I didn't really want to talk to you. Not to mention that after eating, the smell of perfume on my body was gone, leaving only the smell of Sichuan spicy hot pot... Thinking about that scene is embarrassing. After eating, girls must only have MMP in their hearts, so, all straight men, Just a piece of advice, if it’s your first time asking a girl out, I really don’t recommend taking her to eat hot pot!
2. Noisy environment
No matter how speculative a boy and a girl chat on WeChat before their first date, the feeling of chatting online is different from chatting in person. The first date is originally a good opportunity for two people to get to know each other and continue chatting, but the hot pot place is too noisy, which will undoubtedly make the girl have no desire to chat. Although there are private rooms in hot pot restaurants now, the overall atmosphere of hot pot restaurants is indeed not as good as that of some quiet restaurants. Maybe you spent the whole chat just eating and drinking with each other, but there was no pleasant chat at all. Looking back on the first date, it was probably just two people eating hot pot in silence, not talking about whether it felt good or not, and I can't add anything to you. Points may even be lost.
3. Impact on subsequent arrangements
The biggest problem with hot pot is that it smells so strong that it can be eaten by two people. The taste can easily affect the next arrangements. Tell me how you two will watch a movie later! Open a room! How to open it! The smell makes you feel full! The other one is hot and spicy, making you sweat all over after eating it, and it can easily ruin a girl’s makeup. This girl has worked hard for several hours, going back and forth to try on various things, put on beautiful makeup, and changed into beautiful clothes. Maybe the whole hot pot meal will be ruined. You say how inappropriate it is.
On the first date, go to a more elegant restaurant with not many people. Ask the girl if she has any taboos and how much to order.Let’s have a meal, order a bottle of red wine, and chat more under the influence of alcohol, that would be great. Who goes out on a date with a girl for the first time and actually goes out to eat? Who hasn’t had a meal?
Although it is indeed very convenient and simple to treat girls to hot pot, and the taste is not bad, but it will wait until you have more time with girls. After dating a few times, it’s okay to ask a girl to have hot pot after you two get to know each other well. But don’t take a girl to have hot pot on the first date. This is a taboo.
