Chatting is the prerequisite for an invitation. Only when you have a good chat and resonate with a girl can you have the opportunity to invite someone. Below, I will share with you 3 chat topics that can help you ask a girl out in a relaxed way.

1. Invitation through movies

Movies are a topic as big as urban beauties and singles Young and artistic women, from white-collar workers to factory girls, can all be chatted with.

The spiritual world of people nowadays is actually very boring, especially those born in the 1990s. Most of them are only children, have no faith, and have no brothers and sisters. It is easy to feel lonely.

Of course, the opposite is extremely monotonous entertainment.

Maybe going to see a movie with your best friends and best friends on the weekend may be a pastime for most people.

If her circle of friends is visible for three days, or she cannot see any hobbies.

Talking about movies would be a safer topic.

Of course, the categories of movies are very wide, and everyone’s tastes are also different.

Fortunately, after the birth of the genius Quentin, the genre differences between movies have become increasingly blurred, and many movies may satisfy multiple genre themes at the same time.

There is no need to worry too much about whether there are elements in a movie that the other person likes.

No matter what type of movie you talk about, you need to follow one principle, that is, you should choose a topic that the girl doesn’t know much about, but on the contrary, you are very good at and can arouse her interest.

Give me an example!

Like a friend of mine who likes watching horror movies very much, and he chats with girls When I was young, I would tell girls that I particularly like watching horror movies.

He would tell girls, "This is the 56th horror movie I have watched."

Horror movies themselves, as a movie genre, are topics that can arouse emotions, and generally girls I still resist horror movies. It can also potentially reflect your "bravery", but of course it is only reflected in watching movies. But that's enough chat.

"Did you know? Among the 56 horror movies I watched, there was a director who basically only made horror movies."

"Really? Who is it?"

"His name is James Wan, and his masterpiece is "The Conjuring". You should have seen it, right?"

"It turns out that he filmed "The Conjuring". It's so scary. , I still dare not watch the second part."

"Hahaha, don't be afraid, you can ask me to watch it together next time. I will use my illuminated mobile phone case to protect you!"

At this time, on the one hand, we are talking about movies, and on the other hand, we are also preparing for invitations. For example, if there are movies of a similar type recently, we canIt was logical and easy to ask the girl out.

2. Invite through food

Food should be regarded as a universal topic. We all know that food, men and women, people It's normal.

Whether it’s Internet celebrity hot pot or Japanese cuisine, most girls simply can’t resist delicious food.

And there is no threshold for talking about this topic. If you have nothing to do, you can read Xiaohongshu, Weibo, etc., and you can basically have a few words.

For example, you see a girl posting a message in Moments saying she wants to eat hot pot.

Then one day you happened to go to a pretty good hot pot restaurant with a few friends. The taste and price were pretty good. At this time, you can send her a WeChat message!

"Hi! I remember last time you said you wanted to eat hot pot. Today my friends and I went to a pretty good hot pot restaurant. You can try it next time."

No matter whether the girl will agree with you or not You go, you plant an anchor in your heart.

Because she will definitely mention you when she goes to eat with her best friends.

If you don’t mention it, you may be treated as a tool. Stop the loss in time!

Under normal circumstances, when your identity as a food expert is established, you can be fair and aboveboard. Recommend delicious food to her, or directly invite her to go with you.

3. Through travel invitations

"I have been very busy recently and have all my work piled up. I really want to go out. Traveling, the place I went to last year was quite different, and I want to go to it this year..."

First introduce the topic of travel more naturally, and then you can share your travels with girls thing.

However, when talking about this topic, you have to arouse her curiosity and let her see something different about you and others.

You can tell her:

"I don’t like to take pictures wherever I go when I travel. I prefer to take my time and experience the scenery on the road..."

p>

　“I don’t like to go to those crowded scenic spots. On the contrary, I prefer to explore some less popular places with more customs and customs...”

At this time, you can also give She sends some photos to show some of the humanistic feelings she likes. If your photos are good, the girl will feel that you are a very aesthetic person.

She will think that you are different from those people who check in and take pictures when traveling to various scenic spots. You are a blue kid who has your own arrangements and plans for travel and understands life very well. You can quickly gain her favor. Once you have a favorable impression, subsequent invitations will naturally be easy.

In fact, whether it’s movies, food or travel, as long as you can have a good conversationIn fact, they are all things that can be done together.

Of course, don’t invite someone as soon as you start chatting. Instead, wait until you are both comfortable talking to each other before proceeding. After all, the risk of inviting someone out rashly is still very high. Brothers who don’t have much experience in love should be more cautious and take their time.