In Hack's book "The Subconscious and Decision-Making: Silent Confessions That Reveal Your Mind," he mentioned many unconscious behaviors that are influenced by psychology in people's lives. When dating, if used skillfully, you will definitely be able to exert influence when pursuing girls. The author summarizes 3 simple and easy behaviors to teach you how to attract girls without any pretense during dating!
1. Imitation
Many couples will naturally become similar to each other after staying together for a long time. , which is what people often call "husband and wife appearance". In fact, this comes from a kind of human nature - imitation.
Human beings are always imitating others. Although these imitating behaviors are unconscious, they are still of great significance to people's lives. For example, those who are naturally prone to empathy will have more imitating behaviors. .
Therefore, when dating, try to imitate some girls’ speaking styles, thinking logic, or certain obvious actions. This will make it very easy to have a psychological effect of empathy with girls, and will also make girls feel more comfortable with you. You have more interests.
2. Conflict
What is love at first sight? Is it an accelerated heartbeat? Or an accelerated pulse? When a conflict occurs At this time, the human body is prone to stress, people will secrete adrenaline sharply, and emotional empathy will become very sensitive at this moment. This also explains why the hero saving the beauty has been a common love routine from ancient times to the present, both at home and abroad.
Therefore, I made an appointment with my wingman to "arrange" a conflict at the date, trying to create a very reasonable feeling so that it would be difficult for people to see through it. As the male protagonist, if you happen to be able to resolve this conflict, girls will feel your attraction doubly.
Because at the scene of a conflict, girls usually have flushed cheeks and accelerated heartbeats. In addition, girls will begin to appreciate you in their hearts for your excellent performance in resolving conflicts. When these phenomena occur together, girls’ brains will Judgment based on cultural awareness that I am attracted to you.
3. Wait
Experiments have proven that consuming energy will weaken people's willpower. In an interesting experiment, the experimenters chose young partners as test subjects and asked them to concentrate on watching boring videos.
There are two types of results: one is that the couples can’t hold on for a long time and leave; the other is that the couples insist on watching the video. Follow-up results showed that couples who persisted in watching the video became more intimate.
According to this experiment, if couples on a date can spend a long time waiting together (such as waiting in line), their emotions will develop closer.
