If a girl likes you, she will definitely agree to your invitation without hesitation; if she has no feelings for you, she will probably refuse your invitation for various reasons. So what does it mean when you ask a girl out and she neither agrees nor refuses?

1. Girls think your invitation method is too direct

First of all, we must understand that in general, girls Love is all implicit. Even if they like someone, they will not reveal their emotions easily. When you invite a girl directly:

Let’s go to dinner if you are free on the weekend

What do you want to do during your vacation? Let’s go out and play

I’m not far from where you live, let’s eat and have fun together

Such an invitation method is too straightforward, and girls are reserved You won't agree directly, but if a girl has a certain liking for you, she won't reject you directly. At this time, she will say "think about it". In fact, this is a disguised acceptance.

So, you can use this kind of words before inviting you:

Boys: Let’s go out to have a meal together on the weekend. If you say “yes”, you agree. You have to say "Consider it" is also agreed

Girl: What if I don't say anything?

Boy: That means acquiescence, see you tomorrow

Girl: Is that right? No rejection.

Boys: Haha

2. Girls are politely declining your invitation

Some girls are polite and tutored, and are unwilling to reject others directly. In fact, it is not difficult to find that such girls are more polite during chats and will not take the initiative to chat with you, but she will still choose to do so every time you send her a message. The reply was a lukewarm attitude.

Generally speaking, in this case, the girl may not be interested in the topic of your chat and has not yet established attraction. At this time, you need to talk more about topics that the girl is interested in in your daily life to increase the sense of connection.

Actually, as long as the girl doesn’t reject you directly, you still have a good chance. You can find opportunities to make some vague invitations, such as:

“I passed by a hot pot restaurant yesterday. What do you think is special in it?"

"Do you know what is the best in Japanese restaurants? Apart from sushi and sashimi"

"Haidilao has a hidden project, Do you know?"

Under normal circumstances, when girls are curious, they will definitely ask you what you are. At this time, do not invite directly, but make a vague invitation and tell the girls to go and see it together when they are free. During the chat, naturally leading to the date through the chat topic will not make girls think that you have a strong purpose. And the vague invitation is actually more like aA test, not a real invitation. If you are rejected at the vague invitation stage, you need to deepen the attraction first.

3. Girls still want to consider it again

It is difficult for girls to make decisions, especially for Those boys who have only a little affection will be confused about whether to go or not. What you need is to continue to attract girls and establish a sense of security and comfort in interactive chats.

Goodwill is built up little by little. For such a girl, if you really want her to agree to your invitation, it is difficult to use conventional methods. You can try to invite by creating surprises, such as:

"I came back from a business trip, passed by your house, and brought you a small gift. Would you like to come out and have a meal together?"

"I went to xx a few days ago. Didn't you say that you like to eat xxx? I will go to xx in a while. I passed by your downstairs and got some for you. I thought we would have a meal together when I had time. "?"

The premise of this method is that you must know in advance whether the girl has other things to be busy with during this time. If not, then of course it is best. If so, then Stop disturbing girls. The advantage of using this method to meet girls is that it will not put too much psychological pressure on girls in advance, which makes it easier and easier for girls to accept.

Another thing to note is that when you ask a girl out, you must not use questions. This will only give her a reason to reject you. Since you want to ask her out, just use a declarative sentence: Let's go. Eat somewhere, I'll wait for you there, then he will definitely go.

Don’t leave room for her to reject you. If she doesn’t want to go, she will directly tell you that I have something to do and I don’t want to go. She will wait until next time or just say directly that I won’t go. When dealing with a girl, you must leave the choice to yourself and don't let her choose, especially when you ask her out.