Chinese Valentine's Day is a good time for a girl you like to come out and get closer to you. However, many boys suffer from the lack of methods to invite them out. Below, the editor will teach you some ways to ask out a girl you like on Chinese Valentine's Day.
1. Raise girls’ psychological expectations
If the invitation is too abrupt, it will only make girls think that you are It's a last-minute idea without sincerity, and you may not be the only one who wants to ask a girl out on Chinese Valentine's Day, so we need to book girls in advance to improve their psychological expectations.
For example:
Male: Chinese Valentine’s Day will be in a few days, how are you going to spend it?
Female: I don’t know yet
Male: I heard there is an event at XXX on Chinese Valentine's Day, let's go and join in the fun
Generally speaking, if a girl is interested in you, she will definitely agree to your invitation.
2. Invite girls vaguely
An invitation that is too direct will put too much pressure on girls, and if they are It will be awkward for girls to refuse, so you can make a vague invitation to girls in advance and express your intention to ask girls to spend Chinese Valentine's Day together, but don't say the specific time, and make the invitation based on the girl's attitude, for example:
Recently There is a roast duck restaurant that is very authentic. Let’s go and try it together in the evening. It’s in xxx, not far from you. I’ll pick you up after get off work?
There are activities on Qixi Street and there are many delicious foods. , it must be very lively and fun, let’s go and see it together?
First tell the girls the location of the invitation and let them choose. It is easier to hide their needs than making a direct invitation. Girls will be curious about the unknown. , if a girl is interested, there is a high chance she will agree.
3. Reasonable reasons for invitation
When a girl is tempted by your invitation, she may want to go But we still say some words of rejection, which is actually pretending to be reserved. At this time, we need to give the girl a more suitable reason so that she cannot refuse. For example:
It’s Chinese Valentine’s Day, I’m so bored at home, let’s go out and eat dog food together
It’s Chinese Valentine’s Day, and I’m just idle at home, let’s go, let’s take you outside for a walk
If you want to ask out a girl you like on Qixi Festival, you must make sure in advance that she has no other arrangements, so be sure to invite her in advance. Otherwise, when she makes arrangements, you will not be able to get the date no matter what invitation skills you have.
