No matter how good the chat is online, it is ultimately necessary to go on a date to implement the relationship into reality. However, because the two parties only chatted across the screen, it is naturally easy for the date to end in a blind date. Then How to avoid being exposed to death on a date?
1. Invite when the relationship is closer
If you and the girl are already very close on the Internet, it is best to have established a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. Then if you invite the girl at this time, the girl will also It won't feel too conflicting. If the atmosphere is good when you meet, some physical contact between you will be natural.
2. Establish a sense of security
Nowadays, girls are very protective, so a sense of security is One thing you must establish when chatting online is to make girls feel that you feel safe, and then they will never mind meeting you.
3. Lower expectations
The reason why people feel disappointed is often because expectations do not match reality, and the same is true for the reasons why people die after dating. You are extremely witty and charming when chatting on the Internet. Some brothers even photoshopped their photos to look like celebrities. Your expectations for a girl are too high. In her imagination, you are a perfect boy. However, when the date turns out to be successful, the girl will feel very disappointed when she sees the real you in reality.
The characteristic of human nature is that if the reality is higher than expected, the other party will feel surprised and happy; if the reality is lower than expected, the other party will feel disappointed.
Before you cash in on a date with a girl, you must lower your expectations. The specific method can be to send the girl a photo of you in real life, or call the girl in advance to tell her what you look like in real life. When a girl's expectations for you are close to reality, she won't be disappointed, and naturally it won't be easy for her to show up on a date. She may even feel happy and surprised because you are better in real life than online.
4. More samples
Pure text chat cannot see the expressions of both parties and cannot feel The emotions of both parties, therefore, the communication that a simple text chat can carry is very limited. Girls cannot feel your diverse personality samples, which will lead to a discrepancy between reality and expectations.
You can use video and audio to show more personality samples of you and the other person, so that the other person has a more complete understanding of each other. You can also send more short videos, photos, vlogs, etc. of yourself in real life.
5. Bring it into reality
When many men chat with girls online, they always talk about When it comes to women, they rarely show themselves and their real lives., rarely tell girls what you look like in reality. This results in that in the minds of girls, your portrait is incomplete, and girls can only infer what you really look like. If your true appearance is inconsistent with what she imagined, there will be a situation where you will die after dating.
If chatting is like using a paintbrush, then the process of chatting is the process of painting your true appearance with the paintbrush. The more she knows about your real life, the fewer blind spots she will have. When a girl likes you for who you are, she will definitely not die in public when you meet on a date.
