When you chase a girl you like but can't ask him out, most boys will just think that the girl is not interested in him, but they never consider whether there is something wrong with the way he asked the girl to have dinner. If you want to ask a girl out without being rejected, you must first know why she rejects you.
1. Why do girls reject your invitation?
You must know the prerequisites for an invitation. Interest, if this girl has no interest in you, especially when the girl has not fully understood you, and you invite her rashly, it will only make the girl doubt the purpose of your invitation, whether it is for safety reasons or for safety reasons. Girls are naturally reserved. No matter what you say, she will never agree to come out to have dinner with you.
And if you have been chatting with a girl for a while but still can’t get a date, it may be that your invitation words or techniques are wrong.
You must know that girls are emotion-driven creatures. If you are completely unable to mobilize her emotions during the chat and your invitation words are not innovative at all, then your invitation will definitely not be successful. So how should you ask a girl out for dinner so that you won’t be rejected?
2. How should you ask a girl out for dinner without being rejected?
Before asking a girl out for dinner, you must first understand what she likes to eat, and then lay the foundation for a legitimate reason to ask her out for dinner.
For example: "The new restaurant in such-and-such restaurant It’s open, and the sirloin steak there is delicious. You said last time that you like steak, let’s go and try it together!”
Or you can do it at the right time, if you have something happy to do. Celebrate, invite by phone or WeChat, or invite directly, but no matter what kind of invitation, you should be generous and enthusiastic towards people, and treat each other sincerely.
For example, "I want to tell you some good news. I won the lottery today, and I will treat you to dinner tonight."
Or you can ask her to help you in daily chat, and then thank her In the name of inviting her to dinner. If that doesn't work, you can also ask her best friend to help make an appointment, and then ask her best friend to pretend to have something to do when she arrives at the place, and then thank her best friend afterwards.
Finally, I would like to remind everyone that asking a girl out to dinner is actually just the first step in the process of chasing a girl to gain her favor. If you want to take the relationship further, you also need to plan the steps for eating, what topics to talk about during the meal, the arrangements for activities after the meal, etc.