Boys who are too serious are often not popular with girls, because these boys lack interest, especially when dating. If you are too serious, it is difficult to upgrade the relationship. So how can you make dating with girls more interesting?
1. Eyes
Eyes are the windows to the soul and a tool for flirting. Eyes can convey a lot of information , ambiguous nature is no exception.
When two people who like each other look at each other, it can be said to be the most wonderful moment in the world. It is very pleasant to look at the person you like and find that the person you like is also looking at you.
Without further ado, what exactly should you do with eye flirting to release that feeling to a girl?
The first step is to stare at the girl’s eyes carefully and arouse them. Her attention, the first reaction of a girl after noticing us is to look at us. As long as she looks at us, it only takes a second to convey our confidence and our interest in her to her.
The second step is that when we look at girls, girls often feel shy and then look away embarrassedly. If she looks away, you must follow up with a sentence in time at this time. Make fun of her, if you just end the look at each other in silence, it won't have the slightest flirting effect.
If the girl doesn’t look away and boldly looks at you, then move your eyes!
Move away from the girl’s eyes and scan her lips , then moved to her nose, and finally back to her eyes. Look away again for about 10 seconds, scan her whole body, and finally return to her eyes, wink at her, raise an eyebrow, or slightly raise the corner of your mouth, and then actively end the gaze. .
When your eyes are scanning, the girl’s heart is full of thoughts and fawns. This is the flirting effect we want!
(Don’t let the gaze last more than 10 seconds. Once For more than 10 seconds, our eyes will easily become sore, and the information that should be conveyed has been conveyed, which is equivalent to finishing the topic in a chat. If we continue to stare, it will only become more and more embarrassing. )
2. Language
During dating, if our relationship with the girl is not deep enough, we only need to add a little more to the normal chat With a little bit of intimate language, you can easily have a flirting effect.
For example, the keyword "Dong Yong and the Seven Fairies" in the previous example can already make girls think wildly, and it will not make her feel that we are molesting her.
3. Behavior
Flirting is used to increase interest, so if you are clumsy, it will definitely make girls feel uncomfortable at all.Romantic enough.
For example, if you rudely extend your hands and touch a girl here and there, and the girl feels like she is being teased, then you may be about to fall over.
4. Implicit
Flirting is actually similar to joking. Both use hypothetical language to stimulate the other person's emotions, but it is more sincere than joking and is not a joke. That's just pure fun. If you are too enthusiastic, behave frivolously, and are too big, girls will often think that you have bad intentions, and they will relegate you to the sidelines every minute, or even label you as sexual harassment.
Therefore, when we flirt with girls on a date, we must pay special attention to propriety, and do not write a man’s desire for a woman clearly on his face.
When flirting outside the couple stage, be careful not to use too explicit language, such as saying to a girl: "You have such a good figure, I can't stop", "I miss you, I miss you so much" and so on. Yes, these words are not only unromantic, but also extremely damaging to the atmosphere.
5. Mentality
Remember, the girl’s response is not your prize, your response to the girl That's her prize.
This sentence means don’t be overjoyed and feel that you have received a great favor just because a girl has given you some ambiguous information. I feel that if a girl is willing to flirt with me, I have received a gift. This mentality is a typical diaosi mentality.
In addition, if you feel nervous when flirting, it will also affect the experience. Flirting is an interesting experience between us and girls. If you are nervous, hesitate in talking, or just "drive", girls will find it boring.
Flirting does not mean that it involves sex-related topics. It can be very pure or very simple, so you just need to treat it as an ordinary chat with a more intimate relationship.
