Since a girl agrees to date us, it means that we have been recognized in her heart. Therefore, as long as there are no major problems on the date, it is considered a success. If you want to add points on this basis, here are a few tips to share with you.
We all know that the first impression is very important.
If you think of dating as an interview, the first impression you leave on a girl is equivalent to your resume. A good first impression will become a stepping stone for girls to get to know you.
The next thing I want to introduce to you is the "peak-end law" when getting along with the opposite sex.
Bring your date to a successful conclusion, so that girls can remember you after experiencing one date with you.
Research on memory by British psychologists shows that the human brain can only remember two factors after experiencing an event:
The first is the climax of the event. .
The second is the end of the event.
Other factors in the event will not play a large role in the impact of event experience and ratings.
This is the law of peak and end, the peak of the peak and the end of the end.
Many of my friends have always believed that a girl’s evaluation of us through a certain date is only determined by the climax, that is, our performance during the date.
Be sure to note that the end of the date is equally important.
For example, if a restaurant wants to leave a good impression on others, it will not only pay attention to its special dishes being excellent enough, but also pay attention to the after-dinner meal. Guests will also be given a free fruit plate or dessert.
For another example, if a movie wants to get good reviews, it will not only spend time on large-scale production at the climax of the plot, but also include easter eggs at the end.
Before dating the opposite sex, many friends focus on the choice of the date location, as well as the emotional mobilization during the date, etc.
According to the peak-end law, we must pay extra attention to the end of the event.
To give an example about blind dates, if a girl experiences three blind dates in one day, the memory in her brain will only be the plot of the dates with three men, and the dates. Episode at the end.
Recall, what did we do at the end of the date?
Many friends would choose to send the girl home, but this operation is so routine that almost everyone knows it. If you don't stand out, it will be difficult for girls to remember you.
The way to really make us stand out should be unexpected things like easter eggs and extras.
For example, we often go on dates in places like simple meals. Many times girls are embarrassed to tell you that they haven’t eaten enough.
When the meal is almost finished, there is an atmosphere of breaking up. After eating, you go back to your home, and the date is over.
But if the meal is almost finished at the first dining place, we default to "she is not full." ", and at the same time suggested to her that we feel that we are not full and want to go to another restaurant to eat again, so that we can have a sense of surprise.
This is the meaning of transition.
When dating, we should try to avoid spending too long in the same place with girls.
Because it is easy for girls to think that the date is boring, so transition is particularly important. .
Remember to change the restaurant and cuisine when transitioning.
It should be noted that the transition must be unplanned, if it is before the date or during the date. , you just tell the girl in advance, "Let's go somewhere soon", the transition will be boring.
Remember, when girls habitually think that this date is about to end, we can't be reasonable. Propose transitions to maximize the peak-end law
