I have been chatting with a girl for a long time. Although I really want to ask her out, the situation is always not optimistic and the invitation is always rejected. So how do you invite a girl without being rejected? Let’s teach you the correct steps for inviting a girl.
1. Make a vague invitation
A vague invitation is a prerequisite for a successful invitation. If a girl refuses you even a vague invitation, it means that there was a problem with your early chat, and the other party has no interest in you at all. In this case, the invitation will definitely not be successful. If the girl readily agrees, then you can proceed to the next steps.
2. Before making an invitation, first determine whether the girl is available
Before making an invitation, first test when she is usually free.
For example, when you are having a pleasant chat, you can naturally ask questions such as "How do you spend your weekends?" or "What time do you usually finish your work? What do you like to do?"
If she always tells you that she likes to be with you or has nothing to do and can rest directly, it means that she has no one to accompany you during these times, and this is a good time to invite you.
3. Send an invitation when the chat atmosphere is the best
When you are chatting with a girl, chat It is often the best time to chat when you find any common topics you have in common or topics that girls are interested in. At this time, you can send out your invitation.
For example, when you are chatting about a topic and you are getting excited about it, you can say: "Looking at you chatting, I think you are a very interesting person. I happen to be free these days. Why don't we come out and meet each other?" Let’s meet for a drink?”
If the girl agrees, then you should not talk too much after the invitation, keep the girl interested in you, and take the initiative to end the topic, so that the girl feels that she has unfinished intentions. .
4. If you can’t get a date, remember to create a relaxed atmosphere for the girl.
After the invitation is rejected, You must pursue her relentlessly. If you keep pursuing her when a girl is unwilling to accept your invitation, then the girl will often block you directly.
In this case, we should try vague invitations to create a relaxed atmosphere for your chat.
For example, words like "I didn't say now, I can do it tomorrow" and "in two days" are seemingly natural and easy ways to invite people.
It will not put a lot of psychological pressure on the girl in a short period of time, and it will also make him think that you are a very reasonable person who will not force others.
Naturally, I will develop a certain good impression of you, and it will be less awkward in future chats..
After repeated attempts, she would not be embarrassed to refuse again, so she would naturally succeed by inviting him again.
The most important thing is that this kind of date is based on her having a certain liking for you, which is more important than anything else.
5. When inviting a girl, you should arouse her interest and ask her to go to the appointment voluntarily.
If you invite a girl with statements such as "I miss you, let's come out for a drink" or "Let's have a meal and chat" when making an invitation, then there is a possibility of rejection It will be huge.
After all, girls are not stupid. If your purpose is too obvious, your need will be exposed immediately.
She may come up with hundreds of reasons to reject you: "I just finished taking a shower and was lying on the bed, I'm too lazy to move" "Let's try another day, I have an appointment with my best friend today" "I'm not feeling well today"
So what should we do in this situation? The invitation must first arouse her interest and make her have a sense of expectation.
For example, if she likes to eat, you can say, "The Japanese food I ate on Beijing Road today was pretty good. I will take you to try it another day."
For example, if she is a game addict, you can say, "My friend gave me two game tickets for your favorite team. Let's go and watch together when you have time." She will not be willing to refuse you.
In short, women judge whether a man can be relied on through getting along with a man, that is, dating. It can be decided based on the following two parameters.
