Recently, a brother said that she had been chatting with a girl for more than a month and then made an appointment to meet. The chat was quite pleasant. After the show, she even asked the girl to go out next time, but she did not agree. After she returned, she did not call WeChat. What's the matter? I want to ask if a girl who suddenly becomes very cold after a date is cool and is there nothing to do?

Girls suddenly become cold after a date

I think it is a bit inconsistent for girls to suddenly become cold after a date. , I learned about the situation in detail and found a clue. The boy hesitated for a while and said that he was quite happy during the process. Maybe he said one or two words that offended the girl. I asked her what she said and she said she made fun of the girl. In fact, it seems that I said this unintentionally, but the girl remembered it in her heart. Then maybe you did a good job in the process, and then the girl has completely rejected you. Then maybe I subconsciously thought that you two have a relationship. Why do you Saying this about me may cause girls to become resistant to you.

In psychology, this situation is mostly due to the waterfall psychological effect. People look calm when they talk, but in fact they are splashing, so you can make good use of this effect. , moderate guidance and flirting can really help to create some ambiguous feelings with girls, and even make her feel undercurrents.

If you want to invite me again, generally speaking, you’d better say, eh, it’s rare that I can date you. I’ve forgotten what it’s like to date a girl. What does this express? You have dated girls, and you may have had love experience, but you have been single for a long time. Then the most important thing when you first meet a girl is to share your feelings. The most important thing for you is to make her feel that you are very happy when you are with her. Remember? Then enjoy the current state, and girls will be infected by your emotions. When your emotions reach their peak, it is like taking advantage of the rain, and girls will be embarrassed to refuse. Maybe it means that girls will be more proactive in inviting girls. This is the charm of language. .

But if at the beginning, every word you say has a purpose, let every word of yours have an impact on girls. In your relationship, the girl may become defensive and retreat subconsciously. Even if you want to send the girl home, the girl will just decline because she is afraid that you have other intentions besides sending her home. There is also an information gap in getting along with you, three views and five senses. The idea of ????three views and the standard requirements of the five senses must be difficult for each other to come together. A poor impression and uneven sensitive points will make it difficult for you to go far. These definitely require you to understand deeply to know whether they are correct or not.