If you want to confirm a relationship with a girl, the first date is very critical. If you can give the girl a pleasant dating experience, it will make your journey from friends to lovers smoother. So what should you pay attention to when dating a girl for the first time?

1. Preparation before meeting

After inviting a girl and the girl agrees to date, it is assumed that you have not spoken before , have chatted on the phone, that is, have never heard or felt the other party’s voice, then it is necessary to carry out this step. For example, you can chat and interact through WeChat voice strips, voice chat, or phone calls to become familiar with each other’s voices, tone, and intonation. Speech expression. If you haven't spoken on the phone or spoken to each other before going on a date, you're likely to have a strange sense of distance when you first meet, which will deepen the awkward atmosphere of the date.

So you have to use your voice to let the other party understand you better and exchange each other's good feelings. After communicating through voice communication, you will definitely feel that the distance between the two people is not so far away. In this way, we will be familiar with each other's voices, and it will not cause embarrassment when we go out, because both parties will think that this person is the person I have talked to before.

2. Being an assertive boy

Many times, where do we go? What do we do? What time is it? Wait for these questions. Some boys will keep asking girls. This kind of inquiry on the first date is a low-profile way to solicit the girl's opinion. It is not a concern for the girl, gentleman. It is a sign of lack of opinion.

If you don’t have a plan for the first date, you won’t be able to lead the girl, and you will behave in a low profile. This will cause girls to slowly lose patience with you, lose interest in you, and eventually become more and more indifferent to you.

Therefore, we boys should arrange the dating process before the first date, and then lead the girls to be independent and gentlemanly boys.

3. Choose a relaxing environment for the date

A coffee shop is a good choice, a place like this It is easy to relax people, which can also develop the topic better. If the date goes well, it's a good idea to have dinner together on the same night. Then, the best choice of location is a place near the girl’s home. If you want the girl to stay for more than 30 minutes on the first date, I think this is not a good start. Women are the most easily affected by emotions. , long traffic time will make girls feel irritable. If you have a car, it is recommended to drive to the date location and park it in advance, and see if you can use it depending on the date. Through the above three steps, you can at least make the girl's appointment process more comfortable.

4. Grasp the process of the date

Why should we pay attention to the process of the date? Because it is especially important to pay attention to the emotional changes of girls and changes in the dating atmosphere. Importantly, don’t just care about what you talk about, but also pay attention to what the other person likes to talk about.

For example:

When the atmosphere is not so good, we should propose to continue the date at the next location. If the woman goes happily at this time, it means that she has a good impression of you and the date can continue. If the girl refuses, then it is almost ok. This date is over. Because procrastination is a big no-no when it comes to dating.