After the first date, you can basically determine whether to continue the relationship based on the girl's attitude towards you. So how do you know the girl's attitude towards you after the date?
1. Frequency of chatting after dating
In fact, all seemingly unintentional actions in a relationship are behind the scenes. All contain a bit of utilitarianism. Just like when we chat with a girl, it is to change her mentality; when a girl goes on a date with us, it is also to further the relationship between the two. We can't build a relationship with a girl through a single date, but if after a certain date, the girl chats with you more frequently and has a more proactive attitude, it may be because of that date that you are more mature than before. If you know a little bit, it will be a successful date.
2. Does she remember what you said?
The frequency of small talk has not changed. Pay attention to the content of the small talk. Does she remember what you said. In addition to helping us judge the girl's satisfaction rate on this date, it can also further infer her friendliness towards you. For example, during the date, you mentioned that you were not feeling well, as if you had a fever, and she would ask you to take medicine after the date; for another example, on the date, you said that if she kept her hair short, she would be very beautiful. You saw her cutting her hair short when posting on WeChat Moments. You must know that there is a cost for a girl to do these things. The higher the cost he pays, the more it illustrates the problem.
3. Has she accepted the next invitation?
If after the date, how often does the girl chat with you? Similar to before, there is no sign that she will remember what you said, so we will use a bigger trick here to invite her next time. If a girl is satisfied with her previous performance, she has no reason to refuse the boy's next invitation. If you ask her out after a date and she is reluctant to come out, then she may not have any unique feelings for you yet.
Summary: Whether the girl is satisfied or not after the first date is actually not that important. Why do we say this? As long as we act with conscience during the date, the girl's mentality will be fine. As for whether she has the kind of love between a man and a woman towards us, it cannot be determined by that date. So friends, don’t worry, let alone be anxious. Girls hating you is also your problem. As long as you can maintain your current level in the next few dates and gain something from every date, it means you are moving in the right direction. The rest is in the hands of time and is yours. No one else can take it away.
