Question: I met a blind date girl after being introduced by a friend. She often takes the initiative to chat with me on WeChat. I originally felt that we had a good impression of each other, but I have asked her out four or five times. Whenever I need to check out, The girl had no intention of paying at all, let alone eating. It was fine for me to pay, but she even bought a cup of milk tea while waiting for me to take out my phone to scan the QR code, and she never spent any money.
And every time after I paid, she didn’t feel any embarrassment, nor did she express her gratitude or return the invitation. I had just started chatting and meeting, and my impression of her was quite good, and it had developed. The idea of ????developing, but she did this repeatedly, which made people feel a little down, and it also made me very confused. What should I do in this situation where a blind date girl never spends money on dates? Do I need to give her a tactful explanation and how should I mention it? Or are you saying we won’t continue?
Does a girl on a blind date continue to date if she never spends money?
Answer:
Some girls just think that spending money is what men should do. She thinks that men should spend money during the dating process, and girls only need to enjoy it. This kind of girl has no sense of spending money at all. Even if you tell her directly that doing this will make you uncomfortable, she will still pretend to be stupid. This kind of person has no sense of gratitude and consideration, and will plot against you even if he falls in love and gets married.
As for a truly educated girl, she will not let the boy pay all the time. She will pay more or less once or twice. If such a girl sees a boy giving all the time, she will feel embarrassed, because she is not used to receiving benefits all the time without giving, and relationships can only continue through come and go.
For a girl who really wants to develop a relationship with you, she will either rush to pay the bill or treat you back. As for you saying that she even buys a cup of milk tea, she is waiting for you to scan the QR code on your phone to pay. , such girls either treat you as the payer, or they are uneducated and don't realize that what they are doing is wrong. Any well-educated girl will never let a man pay all the time, but will pay once or twice. No matter what the case is, nothing good will come of it if you stick to it.
Another important point is that if a girl already treats you as one of her own, then she will take it for granted that you pay. of. You see, you have already dated four or five times. According to normal development, you should hold hands. You can test her response to holding hands. If she is disgusted with holding hands, then you can give up. Such girls have no sense of propriety and don't know how to give, and they just want to take advantage of you. If she doesn't refuse when you hold your hand, then she considers you a potential boyfriend. Isn't it right to let your boyfriend spend money? This is how girls think, you need to understand.
