When a girl agrees to go on a date with you, it means that you have a great chance. So what preparations should we make to take the relationship between the two further? This time I list three major points to break down the important matters of dating. They are:
Topic preparation, breaking boredom, and ambiguous interaction.
As long as you read it carefully, it won’t be a problem for us to get it right in one step.
1. Chat topics
When everyone goes on a date with a girl for the first time, they often talk about it. I don’t know what to say.
As a result, the two people looked at each other, and the situation was very embarrassing for a time.
So, in order to avoid frequent cold spots during dates, we must prepare topics in advance.
In psychology, there is a Jensen effect, which refers to the behavior of substandard performance on the spot.
Being substituted into the chat means that the normal chat is normal, but when it comes to important occasions, the person becomes speechless.
In fact, the solution is very simple, just make more preparations. Only when you are prepared can you stay calm.
The chat topics that girls are interested in are usually cute pets, food, gossip, horoscopes, etc.
We can talk about cute pets and delicious food, but we need to avoid gossip and zodiac signs, because they will weaken your masculinity.
If you persist in wanting to talk, there is a high probability that you will not become the girl’s boyfriend, but her best friend.
In addition, movies, music, photography, travel, interesting news, and interesting stories can all become topics.
When chatting, you should also focus on fully satisfying girls’ desire for expression.
You don’t need to understand these topics in depth. They are mainly introductions. Once you introduce them, you can say a lot more.
Although the topic is very important, what is more important is the atmosphere and feeling when the two of you chat.
How to control the atmosphere and create different feelings varies from person to person, so I won’t go into details. (Friends in need can directly add WeChat xyxz033 and teach you individually)
2. Dating transition
Are friends basically in the same place when dating, making the date seem ordinary?
In fact, the date location should have alternatives for transfer locations.
We should avoid staying in the same date place with girls for too long.
Because sometimes staying in one place for too long is not a good thing, it will make girls uncomfortable.
No matter how well prepared you are for your first date with a girl, you will never be able to do it with ease.
So when the atmosphere is a little stagnant, girls may feel that dating is a bit boring.
At this time youBy changing the location and bringing freshness to girls, you can greatly enrich the dating experience.
British psychologists have studied a peak-end law, which means that people can only remember two factors after experiencing an event.
One is the climax of the event, that is, the peak. The other is the end of the event.
And the transition is an excellent opportunity to make this date reach a peak.
The transition location is also crucial. If there happens to be a place around where a girl wants to go but hasn’t, it will be a big plus.
This mainly depends on how much you know about girls.
Then, I don’t recommend that the transition location is too far away, because taking too long will reduce the enthusiasm of girls.
If you encounter unexpected events such as traffic jams, getting lost, raining, etc., it will greatly affect the girl’s dating experience.
Then we will lose more than we gain by making this transition.
3. How to conduct ambiguous interactions correctly
Want to make unlimited actions in a limited time , first take a deep breath and stay calm.
Let’s make two points clear first.
First, the intimate contact with a girl during a date must be based on letting nature take its course.
Second, you can feel that girls are not disgusted with you.
A girl who dislikes you will think you are wasting social resources if you take a few more breaths.
Only if a girl is not disgusted with you can she create further intimacy through some physical touch.
However, true letting nature take its course can only be encountered but cannot be sought, so we must create a deliberate letting nature take its course.
For example, after a meal, help a girl move something out of the way and pretend to accidentally touch her hand.
Then he apologized to her very embarrassedly, avoiding her eyes, lowering his head, and scratching his head.
This trick of playing hard to get will definitely stir up waves in the hearts of emotional girls.
Another example is to help the heroine block the flow of people in a crowded place.
You can grab a girl’s elbow through her clothes and ask her to walk behind you.
After that, when you let go, use that trick again to say sorry in an embarrassed manner, with a combination of dodging your eyes, lowering your head, and scratching your head.
A girl’s favorable impression of you will definitely rise sharply.
In short, you need to prepare many and good topics so that you can say no to awkward silences.
Learn how to transition and let girls remember your style.
Finally, add natural physical contact, and you will become a good boy in her eyes.
By mastering these three points, coupled with our sincere attitude, female friends will basicallyYou can become your girlfriend.
But it is worth noting that there is a prerequisite for successfully asking the other party out.
Only after successfully dating the other party can these be effective, otherwise they will be in vain.
