Have you ever met a girl who you got along well with at the beginning? You could talk about anything until midnight, and each other was like each other’s confidant. You felt like you had met your soul mate, so you wanted to date her. When you meet a girl, you feel that you feel pretty good during the meeting, but why does the girl become less active in chatting after the meeting? What's the problem?
After meeting, the girl is not active in chatting
1. The girl realizes that you are not the person she is looking for
When a girl is willing to chat with you at first, in fact, Getting to know you is a process, and you chatting and getting along well, does not mean that girls will have to be with you. After all, girls are members of the Appearance Association. Maybe she is not satisfied with your appearance when they meet, or she thinks that you Some of your behaviors are inappropriate. When she finds out that you are not the person she is looking for, or that chatting with you is very boring, she will decisively reject you because you are chatting. Therefore, if a girl is not active in chatting after meeting, she will also reject you. A manifestation.
In fact, if you think about it yourself, it will be quite clear. You had a good chat with a girl you have not met. You will give full play to your subjective initiative and naturally give her a look that suits your aesthetics. But one day she suddenly posts a selfie in the circle of friends. When you look at it, it does not match your aesthetics, and it may even scare you. You will lose all your good feelings in an instant, and you will say "mmp" in your mind, "Holy shit, why does she look like this..." Because your expectations are high, you will not want to talk to her in the future, and you will even be afraid of her because you feel guilty. Coming to you.
2. Girls want to test your patience
Girls are sensitive. When they receive a signal that you like her, they will pay special attention to you and then pay attention to your Every move, even when she has a crush on you, she will deliberately test you to see if you can meet the standards, so the girl is not active in chatting after meeting. This may be used by the girl to verify whether you are sincere to her. A kind of test, she wants to see if you will continue to insist on chatting with her, or if you will just give up.
3. Girls treat you as a tool
It seems that girls are not active in chatting after meeting. But after a period of time, girls will become more positive towards you. For example, when she wants to ask you for help, she will be very positive and enthusiastic towards you. If you don’t ask for her, she will also take the initiative to find you. But except at this time, if you ask for help, When she chats with you, she basically talks to you in a perfunctory manner, which shows that in her heart, you are more suitable to be an available tool than a boyfriend.
If a girl is not active in chatting after you meet her, don’t rush to ask her why she doesn’t talk to you. This will appear that you are not self-aware. The last method is to find ways to attract girls. Learn some skillsTo make yourself shine (that is, to use your strengths and avoid weaknesses), just like if you have a good voice, then learn to play musical instruments, sing, etc. If you have a good figure, then rely on your outfit to enhance the overall feeling.
