I feel like I have a good chat with girls, and the next step is to fast forward to the invitation. However, most boys who ask girls out for dinner either don’t know the right time or can’t find the right reason for the invitation, so they are always rejected. Below, the editor will share with you two invitation cases. Boys who don’t know how to ask out a girl should quickly learn how to ask out a girl.
1. Bargaining invitation method
When inviting her, give her a reason to refuse. Then tell her the actual time you want to date her.
It’s like you have fallen in love with a piece of clothing. The original price is 280, and you want to get it for 200. When bargaining with the boss, you have to first say whether you can sell it for 150.
The boss will definitely reject you, and then you can increase the price bit by bit. This is much easier to succeed than saying 200 at the beginning.
Of course, the invitation tone should be natural and not stiff, nor should it reveal a sense of need. It should be more of a test to make women interested in your date. Naturally, they will agree or even take the initiative to ask you out.
In addition, it should be noted that the relationship between us and the target has advanced to the familiarization stage before the invitation. Whether the invitation can be successful mainly consists of two aspects:
First, whether objective factors will limit it; second, the sense of familiarity in the early stage Is it established in place.
Many boys think that dating really starts from the moment they meet a girl. This idea is dangerous. A truly wise man never fights an unprepared battle.
Invitations should be made at least half a day to a day in advance. In the early stages of acquaintance, try to arrange the first date on the weekend or a meal after get off work on a certain day.
Let girls prepare themselves well before going out. You know, girls will really reject your invitation just because they are not ready to go out.
Prepare your own clothes before going on a date;
Arrange your hair style;
Bring a mouth freshener to keep your mouth clean;
Clean your shoes.
A clean, tidy and tasteful external image has already opened the door for girls to accept you.
For example:
Sometimes it is so difficult to refuse in favor of others, but in the end, he successfully invited me.
2. Date-breaking test
There is a common case of failed dating:
After you send out the invitation, the girl also agreed at the time. You finally waited for the date with excitement. You thought the girl would show up on time, and you were ready to show off your skills.
ButSuddenly I received a reply like this from a girl: "Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot something today, maybe next time" or "Ah, I'm not feeling well today, let's try another day" and other reasons for rejection.
At this time, the boy will not understand, why did she agree to the agreement at the beginning, but then let me go when we finally met?
If you don’t want to date me, Why can't you refuse directly? In the end, not only will you feel resentful in your heart, but you will also waste the originally planned time.
In fact, this situation of being let go by a girl is just because the girl did not intend to date you in the first place, but you were too enthusiastic when you invited her, and it was difficult for her to refuse. Deal with what I promised you.
Therefore, in order to avoid being missed, after confirming the date, you cannot do nothing and just wait for the date. We must do it well, which is also the most critical step. That is the "anti-breach test".
For example:
You can first ask for the girl’s mobile phone number (this is more convenient than WeChat ID) Going a step further, you can dial with one click on a free afternoon)
Later, he took the initiative to send a text message in advance, which contained the itinerary for the date, and reminded the girl to prepare. good.
In this way, she basically blocks her escape route from letting you go. WeChat messages may be ignored, but mobile text messages are generally impossible.
Finally, because this text message can also reflect your thoughtfulness and caring side.
Isn’t the above technique for chatting and inviting girls to dinner very simple? If you still don’t know how to do it after reading it, the editor really has no way to save you.
