Don't make a bad impression on girls when you meet them for the first time. - dating tips

Many boys like to use body movements to test girls’ favorability towards them when they meet for the first time. It is undeniable that many boys do get positive feedback, but most girls are actually very repulsive to boys. If you touch someone during a first meeting, Xiaoyu Love will use a case to analyze why you should never touch someone during the first meeting, as it can easily leave a bad impression on girls.

Girl’s Narration:

I added a boy on WeChat through a friend’s introduction. After chatting for a few days, we made an appointment to meet. As soon as we met, he was very close to me (I thought to myself: Why is this so Weird), I feel very uncomfortable, just talk and don’t get so close, I will stay away silently. The rest of the meal was normal. After the meal, he suggested walking around, and we walked along the park several times. Then during this period, he either pulled my arm (saying he pulled me because there was a car or something), He just hooked my shoulders, patted my head, pinched the back of my neck, and sometimes spoke into my ear with words that he thought were very flirtatious. Anyway, I was quite disgusted at the time.

Later, before I was about to leave, I used my hand to cover my face (because he was looking at me), and he said, sister, your hands are so long, not like mine..., he stretched them out and wanted to talk to me. I compared my size, but I ignored him, and then he insisted on sending me home. The key is that he thinks this meeting is perfect. I just want to say haha ??and then ignore him.

Case analysis:

It can only be said that the two people chatted quite happily at the beginning, otherwise We won’t meet each other, but what’s the mentality of a boy who makes moves after meeting?

“After dinner, he suggested taking a walk, and we walked along the park several times. Then during this period, he either pulled my arm (saying he pulled me because there was a car or something), He just hooks my shoulders, pats my head, pinches the back of my neck, and sometimes talks into my ear with words that he thinks are very flirtatious.”

Many boys feel like they stick to me the first time they meet. Girls are very close. If a girl feels you are weird and uncomfortable, she will definitely refuse. Then the girl will still go shopping with you, and she will go shopping with you several times? He must have felt that the girl also liked him, otherwise he would have asked to go home and left.

And it’s impossible to walk around for a few times without saying anything, right? The boy must have felt that the atmosphere was there, and he didn't see the girl being disgusted, so he took the next step. Therefore, during the whole process, the girl did not show a refusal attitude, and the boy would mistakenly think that the girl did not mind.

Although boys may think that physical contact is a way to promote relationships with girls, in most cases, when they first meet, Using your hands and feet can easily make a girl feel that you don't respect her, and it can also easily make her think that you are greasy and casual, which is not conducive to the subsequent development of you and the girl.