Dating is the best time to upgrade the relationship when chasing a girl. However, for many people, it is difficult to chat with a cold girl, let alone ask her out. Below, the editor will teach you how to date a cold girl.
1. Get her attention
To deal with cold girls, our general chat method is to affirm No, the first thing you need to do is to arouse her curiosity and continue the topic.
Girls naturally need to be led by men. The purpose of starting a topic directly is to attract girls’ attention to your conversation and lead girls to chat;
Girls are emotional animals, so It can quickly interest girls. Even if she is a cold girl, she will be very concerned about other people's feelings towards her.
At this time, we can find a photo of her through her avatar or circle of friends and send it to her. This detail made her feel emotional.
2. Resonate with girls
If we want to resonate with aloof girls, we can talk about food with girls, because most girls like to eat, so talking about food is definitely not wrong.
And through eating, you can also think of many topics, such as the snacks of childhood, spicy strips, Shuang Wai Wai, whether you can cook, and can use our New Oriental routines.
You can also talk about fitness through meals. One of the topics that girls like is fitness. If this cold girl replies that she wants to lose weight, we can reply "I have a weight loss secret here." If the girl asks "What is it?" you can joke and say, "Give me all the delicious food, and I will tell you."
3. Show your romantic feelings
"The carriages and horses were very slow at that time"
Through such topics, let the girl know that you are a sentimental and romantic man, only different from other men. Only girls are willing to chat with you.
Don’t try your best to think of how to respond just because a girl sends you something. Sometimes we don’t have to pick up her topic. Could it be that when she sends a photo, you just say she’s so beautiful, so awesome, girl? It will feel like you are perfunctory.
4. How to invite
Remember that the purpose of our chat is to invite. Why some brothers can’t date girls because they don’t give girls enough sense of security. I will use the premise to ensure that you go home., making girls feel that coming out with me is just for a simple meeting;
Be sure to meet and flirt according to the type of girl. If the girl you like is more conservative, you can omit this flirting part to avoid arousing girls. Discomfort makes her think you are flirty.