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When dating a girl, think carefully about why you want to go on a date? It’s just that you want to take a step further emotionally with the girl, so the following are These are the things you need to do well on dates.
1. The core of dating: value generates attraction, attraction generates goodwill
Boys must remember this In a sentence: Value produces attraction, and attraction produces goodwill.
From this sentence, we can see that in fact, if you want to arrange a perfect date, "value" is the key factor.
People will always be interested in valuable people or things. When you can release some valuable information during the dating process, then girls will be able to feel your attraction, and thus Be fond of you.
Then, a new question arises here: How to release value to girls during the date?
2. How much a boy cares about this date, release it How much value does it have?
For a girl, the more attentive a boy is to this date, the more she can feel the boy's "value of love". This is to make a girl treat you in a date. The basis for good feelings.
So, how do you make a girl feel that you are interested in this date?
The best way is to check the date in advance.
I know that many boys cannot do this, but visiting the spot in advance can indeed bring many benefits. For example, you can avoid waiting for a table, understand the surrounding environment, increase topics, and avoid bad environments. Make girls feel uncomfortable, etc.
If you can’t check out the spots in advance, at least search for some information on the Internet and prepare a more detailed strategy.
Of course, when going on a date, a boy needs to "accidentally" reveal the work you have done for the date, so that the girl will know how much you care about the date.
For example, you can say to a girl: "I heard that you like to eat Cantonese food very much. This restaurant is very famous. I came here specifically to check it out two days ago. The environment is quite comfortable. The surrounding area There is also a big playground, we will go there to play in a while.”
In this way, girls can feel your intentions, and a good feeling will arise from their hearts.
3. During dating and chatting, the task boys need to do is: transmitting value information
In dating Beforehand, it is best for boys to think carefully: during this date, they want to show girls a certain value and how to show it.Show.
For example, career value, intrinsic value, love value, etc.
First, don’t show yourself directly. Showing off one's own high value can often easily reduce the other party's acceptance and arouse the other party's suspicion and challenge.
Second, remember to use the falling strike method. Declining means lowering the other person's expectations, showing that you are humble and sincere, and allowing the other person to accept your description. The key point of the attack is to attack in the east and in the west. Unintentionally use b to prove a that you really want to explain.
4. The better the dating atmosphere, the more girls can feel the value of boys
If, you In dating, awkward and cold situations often occur, so girls have no intention of discovering your value.
Only when the dating atmosphere between two people is good, the girl will feel your value, and such a date will be effective.
To make a date have an atmosphere, you need to coordinate the "dating project" and the "boy's mentality".
Choose some highly interactive dating projects, and the dating atmosphere between two people will naturally be more enjoyable.
Another point is that people’s emotions are transmitted. Only by keeping a happy enough mentality can boys stimulate girls’ emotions, and the whole atmosphere will be good.
