For some boys who are inexperienced in love, they will be cautious on the first date with a girl. However, no matter how careful they are, they will inevitably do something embarrassing because of nervousness. So what should you do on the first date? What can I do to avoid embarrassment?
How to avoid embarrassment on the first date
1. Remember the other person’s name
This is very important. When the other person introduces himself, we should remember his name. It is a courtesy. After the introduction, it always makes people feel happy when you can say his name out loud, and the distance gets closer unknowingly.
After remembering the name, we should not appear too arrogant and maintain a low-key and humble attitude. This shows respect to the other person and also makes you appear polite.
2. Remember what the other person said
When others are speaking, we must not only listen carefully, but also remember the key points. In this way, you can not only express your concern appropriately, but also win more favor.
When others are in an embarrassing situation, it can also be used as a means of adjustment. It is said that the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. This is probably what it means. Remember what others say and give them a little surprise and you will get more appreciation.
This shows your affinity and also leaves a good impression on the other party.
3. Keep smiling
When you first meet someone, smiling is the best sign. It's better to have a smile on your face than to remain expressionless the whole time. A smile is not only contagious, but also brings out affinity.
What was originally a tense atmosphere is easily relieved by a smile, and then you can easily change from strangers to adults. Why not do this kind of thing?
4. Be fully prepared
We’d better be fully prepared before meeting. For example, you can bring a small gift. When two people are chatting and an embarrassment suddenly arises, we can say that we have prepared a gift for the other person to resolve the embarrassment.
5. Learn the art of speaking
When talking to strangers, you will be timid or eloquent. No matter what, you must grasp the scale and display the charm of your conversation within a reasonable range. Don't be silent or talk for the first time, listen carefully and let the conversation flow smoothly.
6. Find the right entry point
The entry point for chatting means: opening the other party’s conversation box with the appropriate tone and topic at the right time. For example, girls usually like it in the circle of friends. For girls who wear makeup, you can say: "II noticed that your eyelashes are quite delicate today. Do you have any thoughts on staying up late and taking care of your skin?" Then you just sit and wait for the girl to talk.
